I've been with this girl for about 2 month (time is irrelevant), we had no problems at all, i really loved her, and i know that she did too, I was the first guy she sleeps with, we got very attached to eachother. The last month she kept talking about how her mother hates me. We were going our one day, she had a fight with her mother about me then she broke up. She became something differant, she changed a lot, she didn't even wanna see me or talk to me or let me enter the house. When i tryied to talk to the mother she wouldn't confess, she just didn't wanna talk about the subject, she said that she ddn't interfere with her daughter's life, and that it was her daughter's decision. I had a fight with the mother, messed everything up. I don't wanna get back to her anymore, i've learned my lesson. I just want to feel better about this whole subject. I'm 22, she's 17. What should i do? What are her feelings now? How can she hide her emotions? How could have she changed so much?
2006-09-11 16:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sympathies.
It's not easy but when dating the parents have every right to be involved in any relationship.
Once married, the parents have to step back and support.
2006-09-11 16:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings that you're out of that whacky situation, and that the mother hasn't pressed statutory rape on your *ss!! Stay away from all of that! Find someone at least over the age of 18 for God's sake! Young girls don't really have a grip on their feelings. Love comes and goes. Just keep walking down that road to finding someone else who isn't an emotional rollercoaster!
2006-09-11 16:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a case of Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachay...or whatever his name is. Of course, Jessica was a grown woman and at the end of the day she made her own decision. If you're 22 and she's 17, it sounds like her mom might be worried that her daughter's too young. At least that's how it was with me and my mom. Maybe you should back off a little until she turns 18...if you both still feel the same way...
2006-09-11 16:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still under age so her mother could have thretened her by saying she would have you locked up or something. She can't be one person one day and somebody else the next. You should try and talk to her as a friend first and find out what is going on with her and maybe later it could be more than friends again.
2006-09-11 16:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Date women your age. In some states you can be charged with statutory rape. Leave the jail bait alone.
2006-09-11 16:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋