how do you let a guy know you dont want to have sex with them with out really telling them that they are to lil down there.... And has this happened to any one else?
2006-09-11 16:37:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NEVER say that! It will scar him for life.
Say you are gay, in a witness protection program, mentally ill, already married, becoming a nun, or been abducted by space aliens and you are calling from Galazy Sector ZX779, but DO NOT say he has a small weenie!
ANY excuse is better than that!
2006-09-11 17:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had sex once with a guy that was so small I seriously could barely feel anything at all. It felt like a pencil. And the guy was a complete jerk. He went to sleep right after he finished. He got my number and then never called back. So I never knew why. I saw him at a bar a few months later so I knew I had to get him back. I wrote a note and said "Was that really your dick or just a pencil? It was great cuz he was playing pool and I interrupted his shot by slapping the note down right by his hand as I walked out of the bar. He ran after me calling my name. And I ran to my car and drove away. He text messaged me because he was so pissed off. So evidentally he still had my number but never bothered to contact me. And then he insulted me and threatned me because of the note. Obviously he was self conscious about his size. I wouldn't suggest doing this to a guy unless he was a jerk and didn't call you back or used you for sex. But if you do have sex with him again try different positions. Different positions work with different sizes. and maybe try laying on a pillow. that helps.
2006-09-11 23:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the motion that counts not the size. I'm 7" but I know that if I don't do more than bump and grind, I will get kicked out of bed. There are other other ways to rock your world while he do it to you !!! It is never good to insult a guys penis size. It may be the "small" to you but it could be all he's got to make him know he is still a MAN !!!
2006-09-11 23:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Aisle C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't crush the guy with the truth. You can just say you don't want to have sex with him anymore. If he asks why, you just tell him you just aren't interested.
Remember, what goes around comes around. Some day someone might save you from the blunt truth that might hurt. I think you'll do the right thing!
2006-09-11 23:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by MYSTICHROME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is tell him the truth when you all are alone...it may hurt him but just tell him straight up that look I'm sorry but I don't want to have relations with you,I prefer a man that have a little bit more package than what you have sorry but I am being up front with you on this...and see how he takes it ok.
2006-09-11 23:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by cherrypop35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, everytime I have been in a relationship that has reached the point of sex I haven't cared what size he is because emotions take over and size doesn't matter anymore.....
2006-09-11 23:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make up something, be creative, I know that is the worst disappointment ever, been there! I personally have said that I had an old crush that resurfaced and would like to continue that, sorry:-( NEXT!!!
2006-09-11 23:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then maybe you don't really care about him because if you did you wouldn't really care if he was the size of a peanut. Maybe he is awesome otherwise but telling him you don't wnat to sleep with him because he's too small is just down right mean.
2006-09-11 23:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did that done that. Girl, you will have to give him that we can be friends speech. Why lay next to a guy who is not going to satisfy you. Do you really want that Oscar for best performing actress.
2006-09-11 23:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he can't satify you and need to get some kind of enhancements. Don't be ashame to say it, you will probley save him some embassement down the line.
2006-09-11 23:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋