still calls the date line from time to time. I have confronted him about this and he says "I like to listen to the crazies sometimes" I believe he loves me and there is no unexplained times when he's away. We live together and other than this our relationships is great! I'm i wrong to be upset over this?
2006-09-11 16:37:09 · 20 answers · asked by kelley1031 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I would be upset to, especially if that's the way you all met. I would talk to him about it. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him still calling the date line.
Me and my hubby met on line, I know I would be upset if he was on here chatting with other woman. That's why I spend so much time here now, not putting myself in a position to be accused of any wrong doing. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 16:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and let him know that it bothers you and why. I'm sure there is other ways to 'listen to crazies' as he likes to call it. Life if full of crazies and hopefully when he realized how much it bothers you that he still calls the date line he will stop and find a different way to entertain himself.
The key is always communication and staying true to yourself. Only you know what you can and can't live with.
Best of luck to both of you.
2006-09-11 23:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you're not wrong to get upset. however, you have to remember that you did meet him on a chat line. it's like meeting a guy at a bar or club. most guys at bars or clubs, and even on chat lines, aren't looking for long term relationships. so maybe you should be careful of where you pick up guys. anyways, you can express to him that it really makes you uncomfy...if he's not willing to change it, then just ditch him and find a better guy elsewhere...not on a chat line or in a bar/club :)
2006-09-11 23:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just telling you he "likes to listen to the crazies sometimes" when what he's really doing is keeping his options open. Doesn't he have anything better to do with his time than to call a date line to "listen to the crazies?"
2006-09-11 23:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think mizzzthang has a good idea there. If he's going back to the hunting ground, then he's still on the hunt.
You don't go back to the store unless your looking for something to buy. Get what I mean?
2006-09-11 23:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow...you met a year ago on the phone, but you already live together. You people. Worry.
2006-09-11 23:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
sorry but if he definately is calling the date line.
Then he doesn't love you, he might love being with you but sounds like he's keeping his options open to me.
HE IS NOT A KEEPER!!
get out quick before you get dumped.
2006-09-11 23:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by 0bnsgrl0 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he minds if you listen too.........Then you will spend time TOGETHER listening to the CRAZIES and you'll be able to find out what he's doing.......If he says no, then you'll know that there's a problem somewhere.........Take care!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 23:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont get upset about it.he is just exploring the other types of women that are without a man.in fact he is seeing just exactly how much you and he are meant for each other
2006-09-11 23:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's probably just having some harmless fun. If it bothers you then you should give him a dose of his own medicine.
2006-09-11 23:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋