I have been finding lately that I like rougher sex with my husband. I am talking like serious hair oulling, and stuff. Is this like a phase or a fantasy?
2006-09-11 16:25:10 · 39 answers · asked by Brandy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have had 3 kids, and we are still young (23 and 24), could the stress of working and being a mother, and a wife contribute to the "desire" that I am having? In a since I think I have found a constructive way to let out my tension of the day... weird?
2006-09-11 16:41:58 · update #1
I think your hormones are changing. If you are confident & secure with yourself it makes it easier to act on your feelings. Sounds like you're at a great place in your life! Very normal, except most woman are too afraid to let go! Good for you!
2006-09-11 16:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a phase. Doesn't do any harm, unless he pulls your hair OUT. And DO be careful if you get so rough that he bruises you, as you will get "The Hairy Eyeball" from coworkers and doctors who fear you are being abused.
(If this happens, the thing to do is look them in the eye and say, "It's all right, it was consensual.")
2006-09-11 16:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares as long as you're both enjoying it? don't be afraid to do what you like. If you eventually get bored with it but find some other way to sexually please your man, then it doesn't matter if it's just a temporary phase. The problems crop up when one partner wants to do something (or wants to stop doing something) but the other doesn't.
2006-09-11 16:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal. Happens to all couples, and btw everybody enjoys sex, the rougher the better
2006-09-11 16:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by zap 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both... as long as you and your husband are careful so no injuries occur and are both consenting participants have fun .... and try a bit if scratching (the backand buttocks) and nibbling (light biting)... It is intense when done in the right places at the right time...
2006-09-11 16:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yummmmmy! I like rough sex once in a while, minus the hair pulling though....lol
2006-09-11 16:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you honey. Spank me, pull my hair, hurt me!!!! I am into rough sex myself. It is fun if you both know what you are doing. My favorite thing is to be strangled. If your partner knows what they are doing it is so much fun. If they dont then I wouldnt suggest it. It can be very serious if they dont let go in time.
2006-09-11 16:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great ... one of the many facets of love making.
Exploring one's sexuality is healthy and so important in growing into a complete human being.
2006-09-11 16:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rough sex is common throughout the animal kingdom. Have you tried spanking?
2006-09-11 16:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not weird..at all most people find some little thingthat is not societys norm..I have found that even some slight pain is wanted by most women during sex ..have fun enjoy yourself and be creative in bed....
2006-09-11 19:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋