i have been dating my bf for about 5 months and i really love him and i have a great time with him but i think i'm falling in love with my really close guy friend Mike and i know he really likes me too.
2006-09-11 16:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by gothgal101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is always a tough situation to face. I've had it happen to me once before. I once loved a girl, but we were best friends. We tried dating, but it only lasted about three days. We just weren't willing to risk our great friendship with each other. I do still love her, but only as a friend. That was probably three years ago. I have a great girlfriend now that I have been with for two great years next month, and I'm am hoping that we can stay together. Sometimes you may feel like you love your friend, but the truth is you just love them as a friend. If your seriously thinking of looking at him as a possible boyfriend, then look at how things will change. You may just want to keep him as a best friend, because he may not be able to fill your boyfriend needs. Just always be sure that you are honest with your boyfriend and Mike. Don't hide things from them. Let them know how you feel, and if you have any problems with anything ask them for help. If they really love you, or care about you then they will be there for you. Just be sure that you don't cheat on your boyfriend. If you are going to go for Mike, then let your boyfriend know, so ya'll can work things out. Feel free to email me if you have any questions. jackl_1988@hotmail.com
2006-09-11 16:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you say you "love" both of theese people i think that that is a lie. Cause you would haave to like one better than the other right. THink of who you would choose if you wernt going out with your boyfriend... and do you just like the other guy as a friend and got confused
2006-09-11 23:17:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that a really hard question maybe you should talk with them if they agree you to date with them at the same time then choose who is the best that will be a good dicision
2006-09-11 23:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you willing to risk your friendship? if so, if you know that your guy friend feels for you, try it. be don't be surprised if he says you guys should have just stayed friends later. also, look at who treats you the best and how you feel with the both of them...
try that...
2006-09-11 23:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by holla@me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose.
2006-09-11 23:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are really cheating both guys,don't be labled as a cheater,it sticks with you.
2006-09-11 23:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are still in love with ur bf then stay with him if u are in love with him
2006-09-11 23:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋