She told me that the other day a bigger boy aged 8 or 9 told her that he knew a place where there was an orange tree and he asked her to go with him to eat oranges. Once they arrived there the boy grabbed my daughter and after putting his hands inside her pants reaching her private parts he started to push her from behind with his body, after he did that for some time he runned off. Has my daughter been sexually molested? What kind of abuse is this? Would it be worse or better if she wouldn't had told me? why?
2006-09-11 15:59:09 · 17 answers · asked by Mattia 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Homework Help
Yes! That is sexual molestation. You should be proud of her for telling you because it means she trusts you. You should have something done about this other child because now that it is known that he is hurting other children, you can stop him before it goes to far. On top of that, sexuality at his age is a learned behaviour and it is very likely that someone else is molesting him. If you can bring it into the light what he is doing, perhaps you can save several children from the pain and lifelong humiliation of sexual abuse.
2006-09-11 16:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by jennybeanses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse she was molested. And now you have a job to do. You better find out where that little bastard lives, and go talk to his parents. At the very least. Everyone keeps saying to notify the school but I don't see where it says this happened at school. So you also need to call the police. The bottom line is she told you and now you have to prove to her that she matters and do SOMETHING about it. I'm not sure what you mean or why you would ask if it would be better if she WOULDN'T have told you. Are you kidding if she can't depend on YOU who does she have. Now go handle your business!!!!
You know what?? Never mind I just read all your other questions and your an idiot......some of the time your a girl and some of the time your a boy........sometimes your 25 and sometimes your 16.....you need to take a long walk off a short pier
2006-09-11 23:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this behavior is denfinately inappropriate, and I would wonder where this boy is getting this aggressive behavior from. How old is your daughter? She was sexually molested. A point to remember is that most boys get mimicking behaviors at his age. I am sure you have heard of boys and girls playing doctor to see what their body parts are, but this is not what happened. I would talk to the school and potentially the boys parents about the seriousness of the sexual abuse. I am happy to hear that your daughter trusts you enough to tell you what happened. I hope you continue to keep those doors of communication open!
2006-09-11 23:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Celeste B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definite abuse. Did it happen on the school playground? I know a little less than 12 years ago the playground chant was "sex before eight or it's too late." My little girl had a boy at her daycare tell her to push her pants down and show him stuff. She told me. The daycare lady denied any problems but I later learned that she would leave the children unsupervised while she had smoke and chat breaks. Sixty Minutes or 20/20 did a story on this type of playground bullying back in the late eighties. Children do learn from what they watch on television.
If your little girl is only puzzled about it, chat with her nicely and deal with it on your own without her to witness it so that she doesn't develop fear. Be proud that she shared. You're doing well as a mom.
2006-09-12 00:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Beezer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a daughter, but it is better that your daughter told you. Children need to know that they can come to their parents when bad things happen. Now, believe it or not, you must report this, even if the child was the same age. If not, you will be guilty of failing to report child abuse and your daughter can be taken from you. That little boy is probably being sexually abused and someone needs to intervene. I am sorry this happened to your daughter, but glad you have the kind of relationship with her that she trusts you.
2006-09-11 23:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call the cops and the school!! At this point, your daughter is counting on you, the grown up, to handle the situation. You have to make her see that what happened to her is not supposed to.
The sad part of all this is that the little boy is probably being abused by someone else too!!
2006-09-11 23:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Travel_Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. anytime a girl or woman is touched in a way she does not submit to it is molesting or sexual assault. Please seek the authorities and counseling for your daughter. She needs to be reassured this will not happen again in the future. The boy has problems as well and does not need to loose on the streets. He has some kind of disorder and would benefit from counseling as well.
2006-09-11 23:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by CiCI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! your daughter has been sexually molested( no matter what is age). It would be worse if she would not have told you. What I would do is have Family Services investigate his home (Parents,sisters,brothers, or guardians). He has had to learn this from some where if he is this young. You should diffently report it to the police. They will know exactly what procedures to do. No! This hasn't happened to my daughter or at least she has never told me that it has!!
2006-09-11 23:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by no.#1 Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely report this to the school teacher and principal. The boy has to have learned the behavior from somewhere, and 9 times out of 10 its from home. Finding out what the issue is right now will protect your daughter and him.
2006-09-11 23:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was definitely sexually molested.
My sister had the same thing happen to her, she was only 6 or 7 at the time. She felt so violated. It was so sad.
Contact the school and the police immediately. Make sure she is telling the truth first though.
2006-09-11 23:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋