2006-09-11 15:45:42 · 10 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The upside to being lonely is that you are alone!
Learn to like yourself and learn that you don't need someone else to define yourself.
There are lots of things that are great about being alone....
1. Your keys are exactly where you left them
2. You are in charge of your own finances
3. You own that remote, baby.
4. You are free to date anyone you like
5. You have time to take those ballroom dancing lessons
6. You can dance to Are You Ready For Some Football and not feel the fool.
7. You can become self-reliant
8. You can finally change religions!
9. You can share a spoon of ice cream with your cat.
10. You can discover that life is beautiful and well worth living.
Peace
2006-09-11 15:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow! you've gotta get your head out of the computer screen and into the mirror first. Then smile at your best friend and remind her you love her.
After that, make sure you're dressed neatly and go for a walk. keep remembering that friend in the mirror and smile at the memory of love and companionship she can give you. Pass the smile on to the people you walk past and make a little bit of their day nicer. Give your second best smile to anyone who gives you a hard time or makes you feel undeserving of love. Your best smil should always be for the girl in the mirror.
2006-09-11 22:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Marnster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey if I had the answer to that I would be a millionaire. Even tho I have a crowd of people around me, I am alone and it hurts so much. BUt until I can find the way out of this crowd, then I will continue to be alone and lonely.
2006-09-11 22:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by mikeae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this question is too hard, i cant also escape from loneliness , sometimes loneliness becomes a friend, and when that happens you start to wallow in pain, there's no escape, you can only create an imaginary world
thats what happens to artist and people filled with so much emotions they get lonely , they feel trapped then they create another so called world
then they become writers like me
2006-09-11 22:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to be lonely than to be with the wrong person, believe me...Get out, meet new people, things will take care of themselves...Good Luck
2006-09-11 22:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by mobileminiatures 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont think about it, talk to your friends if they dont make u feel part of somethin then try to find a relationship or something maybe make more friends and expand from the group ur in, if the friends u like the most dont include u in soo much then think of the friends u kinda let go a little bit, try to talk to them. the main thing is to build up your social life soo talk to ppl about anything
2006-09-11 22:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by The King 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go out and meet people. Church groups, bowling, gym, etc. Just go say hi. Do some volunteer work and meet people. It does take an effort but you can do it.
2006-09-11 22:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find and go with your personal passions in life.
Be the best person you can be and live!
After finding that you LOVE LIFE without someone... you'll find that person and make the relationship that much better, for finding yourself first!
(Good luck to you).............
2006-09-11 22:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something useful. Get busy, get out of the house. Say your prayers.
2006-09-11 22:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Darby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something you enjoy to pass the time and try to call friends to hang out with.
2006-09-11 22:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋