It is coming upto the 1 year anniversary of my husbands death, and I would like to do something special for the occassion with family. Can you please help me?
2006-09-11 15:30:29 · 8 answers · asked by Kym 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are many things one can do with family-in memory of your loved one. Depending on your religious beliefs-One can set a table and prepare a meal of favorites you shared, have a good picnic in the woods or park, Remembering the Memories are really good-use pictures, movies and talk of the things that were most fun in your lives. Besides one may go on, but the other mate must travel a new journey in life and a new path and rebalance ones self..Have a wonderful day and hope some of us have helped you...
2006-09-11 17:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by tombowling49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. Are you catholic? If you are have the church candle lit for a week in memory of him or you can Have a service said especially for him on his anniversary or the weekend of that time. I have a relative that did that for her husband who died from Lou Gehrig's Disease 4 years ago. I know this sounds harsh but there is one bright side your husband is not suffering anymore is he? He is in a solemn place. I am sure other religions have other traits to do this. I would also have a family dinner. or visit that persons grave, if there is one. I Sincerely hope this helps you. Stay strong.
2006-09-11 22:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Invite family members over. Make your husbands favorite dinner. Set the table with a place for him. Light a single candle and place it at his spot on the table.
Then sit around and tell stories about him. He will be there listening to you and loving the stories.
2006-09-11 22:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had twin boys that passed away about four years ago and we always have a barbeque with family and friends to have a good time and its not sad either it helps to cope being with family and friends on a sad day.I'm sorry for your loss and try to have a good time.
2006-09-11 22:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by freckleface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off i am really sorry for your loss! i lost all my grand parents so i know how it feels to lose someone you love!
We'll I would get the family together and go to his grave sight and lay flowers there. Have a moment of silence and go to a restaurant he liked and have dinner and converse and comfort each other.
2006-09-11 22:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by crazywhitegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a nice dinner together.. set around and enjoy the memories you shared together.... Talk about the things you did... The places you went.. Laugh.... Relive........And thank God you can still share them with your family and cherish them in your heart...........
2006-09-11 22:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring your family to your house and make your husbands fav. food,and just think about the remembrance of him,Thats what we did for my uncle,hope this helps!
2006-09-11 22:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_pink_chick12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the park, have a picnic,and enjoy the good times,talk ,laugh,cry,and u can even walk there too.
2006-09-11 22:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋