Ok, here's my story. i put in here because i want to know someone else's opinion.
When was a little girl i used to play "Wife and husband" with my best female friend... i played the husband, lol. I always thought it was pretty normal, it was just a game, we even kissed and everything. Sometimes i used to go to pee like a boy, lol... i played with dolls but i enjoyed more making a ride in my little motocycle... when i was in 5th grade i fell in love with this girl who was my classmate back then, but she never realized about my feelings about her, then i forgot about her and i decided to hide everything relationed with my "lesbian side"... at the age of 13 i started dating with guys, but i never enjoyed as i would have enjoyed with a girl even i felt attracted by them... then when i turned 14 i met a girl who i fell in love with, she helped me out to accept my sexual tendences but i'm still not ten per cent sure... i'm kinda scared about that, do you think i'm a truly lesbian?
2006-09-11 15:15:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i don't believe in bisexuality, besides i would never, i repeat NEVER have sex with a guy....
2006-09-11 15:26:28 · update #1
Why should you worry? The most important thing is to be happy and with the person that makes you happy. There is no need to put a label on your sexuality. It simply is YOUR sexuality.
2006-09-11 15:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by eufrosyne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You made the choice to be attracted to same gender innocently, but you made that acceptance even if it was a game, even if you was role playing a game. You made this choice not thinking about the plan for society. It is a choice made to be homosexual.
There is gender nonconformity that played some of your role, and I believe you was a child with learned characteristics that gave you gender nonconformity. They do think that some children are influenced by hormones to have gender nonconformity, and often these children want to be the opposite gender than they was born, even before they form sexual attractions on same gender.
It is called lesbian when a female is sexually attracted to a female.
2006-09-12 12:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute story : )
I think you are lesbian on what you have said but just do whatever you feel comfortable with, and if that's being the husband, riding around on your motorbike and peeing standing as long as your happy.
I hope this has cleared up the ten per cent lol
2006-09-11 15:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality is real! >:P
Anyways, my guess is that you're struggling with your sexuality, but odds are you're a lesbian. Let's look at the facts. You like women and you don't like men for companionship or sex. Yep, you're a dyke. Welcome to the group!
It sounds like you still have some hangups about your sexuality. Ask yourself what you're having problems with and try to work on those areas. Remember that you've got siblings in the community that are willing to help you out!
2006-09-11 21:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know children usually imitate their role models maybe your dad was your role model. Are you a lesbian? Well, it depends if you truly are more sexually, physically and emotionally attracted to women then you are men. You state that you would never date men, seek within yourself as to why you wouldn't date men. I personally have never been attracted to men at all, women have always caught my eye since I was a child. I am a lesbian. Only you can determine this.
2006-09-11 16:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by cj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a genuine heartfelt love for females. You should explore that side of you, since that is what is pulling on you the hardest. Theres nothing to be afraid of. You will have a happy healthy life as long as you stay true to yourself..
2006-09-11 16:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u should consider that u might be bi, in fact more people are bi than they realize. Your young u have a lot of yrs to figure it out. Don't worry so much about if your lesbian or not! Instead explore ea gender then go from there. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 15:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sello 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your not 100% sure then in all likely hood you are bi. I am too, but I am married and have never actually acted on it. I have wanted too really bad, but I would never hurt my husband like that. But the tendency is always there. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 15:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you maybe a lesbian. Is that a bad thing? Heavens no! Is it scary? I'm sure it is. However, you can't help how you feel. I'm guessing your a teen or young adult, so maybe seek out LGBT groups or others than can support you right now.
2006-09-11 15:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by Irish Girl in Cali 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most young girls deal with these feelings they just aren't as open as you are about exploring them. You are exploring your sexuality. Don't be concerned with labeling yourself just yet.
Blessings )O(
EDIT: Since you would NEVER have sex with a guy, then yes, you are a lesbian.
2006-09-11 15:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋