My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have a very healthy sexual appetite...we have a huge box full of toys, and videos, and magazines....sometimes my little voice inside tells me that its wrong, but we are faithful to each other....I would like to know other peoples oppinions....
2006-09-11 15:15:18 · 23 answers · asked by 1paris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How could that be wrong if you are both into it?
I have them...........I buy them and like them. They are mine and I use them when I feel like it............but they don't come out of their hiding place with "everybody".....
I would only suggest that you and your husband keep them locked away from children if you have any..........(lol).... that could be really hard to explain...
2006-09-11 15:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anything, that voice may be speaking of the videos and magizines but, i'm not mad at ya.
The toys they are cool. Don't worry about them. I wouldn't imiagine that voice is talking about them. I'm all about the toys.
But is really doesn't seem to work as well a single man with a bunch of toys, chicks are not in to it. However, they are in to it if you purchase the toy together.
Some toys are better than others. When i was married, we got some toys that we seemed to get out almost everytime we had sex. Other toys, we used once, and yada yada yada.
2006-09-11 15:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by quarterton2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having a array of toys. It keeps the relationship healthy. Awesome for the two of you.
2006-09-11 15:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. In fact it can add a lot to a realtionship. For the guy it can almost be like having a threesome without the thrid wheel. He can watch you please yourself...giving him a show if you will and take some preasure of him if you pleasure yourself. It can also give a women a idea of what he likes and how to stroke him.
2006-09-11 15:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by hope4best 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are married, you can do anything you want with each other, the bed is undefiled. If toys make your lives better and fun, then go for it!
2006-09-11 15:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by samanthajane19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find it enjoyable I say keep it up. Sex can be fun in many different ways. It is just between you and him so don't feel bad in any way. If you feel uncomfortable then tell your husband.
2006-09-11 16:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel it enhances a relationship and you both won't wind up getting bored. My x wouldn't do anything like that he said it was wrong.......he was wrong. Go ahead with no guilt and have fun.
2006-09-11 16:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no, all in favor of latex loving. Let your freak flag fly and enjoy all your toys.
2006-09-11 15:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by medic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
toys if they keep things interesting between the two of you and your both are faithful then play on
2006-09-11 15:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love women's sextoys it's sexy and hot and I love it my wife uses the sextoys on me and f u c k s me in the a s s it makes me feel like sexy woman that I am I have a femmie side in me
2016-05-13 10:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋