I am heart broken. I loved this guy with all my heart.. he would tell me that we were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. idk what to do or think right now. this happend around 4pm. He just called me to see what I was doing. The reason why he broke it off was because I finnaly had enough of him spending more time playin poker online and spendin time with his friends more then me.. and I said something about it..
2006-09-11 14:51:19 · 26 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sure that it hurts a lot. Just give it some time and see how both of you feel...you're probably young and your emotions are amplified...so just relax, take it easy, read a book/watch some television, eat some ice cream and chat with your friends.
If it is meant to be, it will be.
2006-09-11 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by The ~Muffin~ Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you for telling him how you feel, then that is his problem. Why do you want to be with someone who spends more time playing poker than with you.
When he calls again to see what you are doing, tell him you are busy. In a few days he will realise what he has lost and then you two can sit down and talk about maybe getting back together but his actions have to change. If he loves you, he will give you more attention.
2006-09-11 14:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you should thank your lucky stars that he broke off the relationship now. Quite frankly from what u said he does this is a blessing in disguise. Yes u may feel bad now but this soon will pass. Move on and up. This opens up your cama for someone else to come into your life to respect you and how fun with you. So cry with hope that it could only get better if you accept nothing less. Good luck you deserve it. Always speak up , no one can ride your back if you do'nt bend over.
2006-09-11 15:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by lady e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard now. In the long run, you don't want a guy who would choose online poker over you. If you think about it, he's the one who lost here. What you need to do is make plans to pamper yourself. Perhaps go get a pedicure and manicure, go get a massage, go out with a girlfriend to a really great meal that you wouldn't normally go to. Whatever you do, don't get depressed. Over time you can put it in perspective and realize what kind of choice he made and that you got let off the hook. One day soon, you'll be grateful to him.
2006-09-11 14:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so actually you broke up woth him..
Hm..so why there is a question mark there. This is not a question..hehe. But well, I know you just want to release ur sadness and emotion here. Understandable.
Is ok. You guys have been 2 yrs. The chance of getting back together is pretty high..depends whether one of you want to keep going or not.
you guys should clam down and talk about ur thought instead of just saying it out during breaking up. At this moment, it is better for you and him to quiet down, not to see each other for a week, and decide what to do. It is better for you to talk to him after a week..because both of you will be more eager pay attention of what others' needs instead of just ur own.
/cheer up
2006-09-11 14:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, if he couldn't give up some time off the computer for you, then what would that tell you about the future? He is obviously not ready to sacrifice the way a relationship requires. Sorry to hear that though. When you are so far down, you can only move up.
2006-09-11 14:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is always hard, but it sounds like your boyfriend wasn't considering your feelings in the relationship. You will find, with time, that you will be better for it ending now. His priorities are not a relationship right now and no one deserves to be treated as "second best". Keep yourself busy and active and things will start looking better real soon. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 14:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are better off with out him. Honestly would you want to see yourself down the road 10 years with kids and a husband who would rather be out gambling all your hard earned money away and never being at home with you and the kids. I know its hard now, but really he will either grow up or not and you can't force that to happen. Later you will look back after you have truly found the one you are going to be with and think I can't believe I got that upset over him.
2006-09-11 14:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by smiliegalccd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was probably the final push in a relationship that wasnt 100%. Dont worry, I know it hurts, but there will be someone who you are 100% happy with and thats the person you will want to live with. Ask yourself, would you want to spend the rest of your life with this person (never assume that they will change, take them as they are)?
2006-09-11 14:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by julez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say you need to forget about him.. I read in a magazine that if a guy is really into u, he would make time for you.. The excuse of not having enough time, is simply saying I dont want to be in a relationship with you..
2006-09-11 14:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋