OK with in a three day time span this is what has happened::
first i have to deal with my best friends jealousy about me and my boyfriend, [[and dont tell me im a ***** b/c i said shes ''just jealous'', shes told me her self many-a-times.]] and when us three where hanging out she got all massive depressive, and when i see her that way i get that way. then i got home late that night and my bro adn step dad were up waiting. my step was acting a little weird so i kept askignhim what was wrong, and then he just started crying, ive never seen him cry so hard, at all for thatmatter. he talk to me adn my bro for about 45 mins telling us how he was fed up with my mom and her drinking. and how hes thought about leaving but doesnt want to just leave us and doesn want to leave my mom when shes havign this problem (alchy) he went on and on, and it was so sad. then the next day my other best friend called adn she said she ran away..again... cuz she got into a huge fight with her step dad.
2006-09-11 14:43:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so she came over in the middle on what was goignon withmy family. ((we had a little intervention with my mom b4 she did though)) and then i got sucked into the middle of her family problems as well. and along with her boyfriends, ryan's today. hes a ******* attion seaker and just brigns her down but theres no way she can see that, adn i hate to tell her over adn over, b/c she never listens. then the other depressed friends was actign liek its my job to find her a guy to make out with for her party. I KEPP TELLIGN HER TO find some one thats nt her type she wont listen, hes got to be cute, got to be B.A. NOT TO FUCKIGN MENTION I myself am dealing with TWO major [[secret]] problemsd that i cant get help with.. IM SO ******* STRESS IM SERIOUSLY CONSIDERIGN DOING SOMETHIGN STUPID!!
2006-09-11 14:47:21 · update #1
I know a guy in his mid forties who had a heart attack a few years ago. He's the kinda guy that 'catches' all the negative energy from his job, relationships, kids. EVERYTHING he'd catch, meaning he felt every criticism, mistake and slight anyone ever projected. Like he is the filter for all the 'gunk'.
If he reacted differently, if he could, he would have let all the negativity 'pass through him' instead of, like a magnet, holding on to it all.
If he could learn to just let it pass, the things he can't change or affect, perhaps he will live longer with less nervousness and more enjoyment. After all, it's his life!
Good luck with yours!
2006-09-11 14:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to handle the stress youre just gonna have to take some u time. take a pet on a walk, pick a flower , smell a flower, and tlking can help too and sometimes you have to use tough love on people.
2006-09-11 14:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink heavily
2006-09-11 14:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress yourself too much. go for a walk and listen to music.
2006-09-15 03:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by bidia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first,easy does it, so what, who cares,kiss of. one day at a time.
2006-09-11 14:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mojo Seeker Of Knowlege 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn to God
2006-09-11 14:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by smiliegalccd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are an idiot
2006-09-11 14:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋