I have. Its strange. Never thought I could do that. Im unhappy in my marriage anyways, because he cheats on me. Well, he saw my internet lover, told every little bad thing about me in my life, so now Im ashamed. should I talk to internet bfriend or just let this all go and never talk to internet guy again?
2006-09-11 14:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Ive cared deeply for people Ive only met on line. But I believe you can fall in love. Met my husband on line :)
2006-09-11 14:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never let the institution of marriage blind you from the truth of an unhealthy relationship. Having said that, you may want to repair your marriage by discussing the issues/ going to counselling.
Internet bfriend is just a symptom for the deeper things that are going on - ie a lack of communication and cheating on your husband's part.
You decide - have a think about these issues. I trust you can make the right decision.
2006-09-11 21:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo questioner 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would love to give you a sound answer but there are just too many details not being told. Where does your net friend live? Mine is in Nepal. .How long have you been married? I am single. How long have you been talking with your net friend? Me, almost a year now and have not met him in person yet. How long has your husband been cheating on you? I think my boyfriend was cheating on me eversince i met him! What is your age range? I'm not telling mine. For me, i had been dealing with one person for three years, things started to change, did not trust him like i used to. Then i met someone on the net, friendly conversation, no sex talk or questions about it. Same as you, i did not hide the fact i had a boyfriend, everything was up front. It just happens, it happened, i could not wait to see him on line. I could care -less after a while if my boyfriend paid attention to me or not. Sorry to hear that you are married, much difficult choice you have to make about whether you should stay or go. Write down all the good about your marriage, all the bad about your marriage....what can you work on, what is hopeless in changing. Write and write and write out your feelings at nightime about each of them. I said night time. Read it during the day.....how do you feel when you read it? Like you want to throw the towel in about your marriage or work on it? How do you feel about your net friend after you read all about him? Do you feel like a fool or like you would be happy with him if he is for real about you? I trully believe you need to write down everything about what is going on in your life and your mind will be clearer. Good Luck to YOU....
2006-09-12 01:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by OXOX_4_U_Dhurba_n_Nepal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you fall in love with someone on the Internet you are falling in love with someone who is not "real" because a lot of the information that would normally get through your five senses is missing. The other thing psychologists point out is that Internet relationships are "in reverse" because you are intimate first (by email, I mean) and really acquainted later, whereas it's supposed to be the other way about.
Drop him. Flesh and blood, real life, better chance. Best of luck.
2006-09-11 21:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that looser your w/ should be ashamed! for cheating on you, he should apreciate what he haves home is(or was) a person that loved him. Leave that f.u.c.k.e.r your w/ and start over.
better to be single and happy, then w/ someone and misserable(mejor sola que mal acompanada)
leave the person your w/ now and start over. You might have a better life w/ someone else. Get back in your feet.
Dont always trust people online, theyr'e sometimes fakes!
Remember when you began dating this jerk your w/ now.. how much has this person changed since you guys have been married? now imagine dating someone you don't know?
Start over! You don't need this jerk, he's taking advantage of you.
I say if you "love" this person..your "online lover" meet them in person and get to know them IN PERSON then see if the person you love now will be the person you'll love in the future//
2006-09-11 21:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by Become a better person 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this man helps you, then by all means talk to him. However, I have to say that it sounds like you have a huge gap in your life when it comes to intimacy and support and might make unhealthy choices when it comes to where you look for human connection and support.
You should talk to him, by all means- just be sure to think about why you need to.
2006-09-11 21:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not love someone over the internet that I havnt met in person. Get back to your husband, and bear in mind:
what you have and know is better than what you dont have and dont know.
2006-09-11 21:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by acnexus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this guy really loves you, then he wouldn't be bothered by the things in your past. Everyone makes mistakes. Just continue to talk to him. It'll give you closure so you won't have to "what if" yourself.
2006-09-11 21:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you internet bf is a jerk and should mind his own bizz . cause he is just preying on you when you are in a serious state of mind your husband should find him and give him what for !!!!
2006-09-11 21:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that would be like falling in love with a ghost
2006-09-11 21:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋