It cant be over?

Question

I dated this guy for a year... and last week something happend I 4gave him for it just as he forgave me...but he lives in another state right now hell be back in 4 weeks..... but I want to be with him still...... but sometimes I feel like a call to much... but i dont want him to find someone new...... He even told his boys that he is in love with me but we never have time to talk to each other... he does football from 7-9 and I do cheer from 5-7 do we never get the chance.to . talk.... what do I do....

and how do I get him back

Answer 1

Between this and the funeral, you've got a lot on your plate right now.

It may seem horribly inconvenient and painful, but having the time apart from each other is a really great thing for you both.

Since you dated for a year, there's no way he doesn't know how you feel. Plus, metaphorically speaking, you can hold your breath for 4 weeks: in a human lifetime, that's practically nothing.

It is an absolute, irrefutable certainty that no guy will ever "find someone new" -- Unless He's Looking For Someone New -- in which case, you shouldn't want him.

You didn't reveal the nature of the infraction for which you each forgave the other, so it isn't really clear how serious was his transgression.

Girls cheat for different reasons than the reasons for which guys cheat. If a guy cheats on you just once, he has revealed what sort of guy he is: he will never change, and though it might be a while before he cheats again -- he Will cheat again. Cheating in men is evidence of a fundamental and irreparable character flaw.

The same goes for a guy that hits you or is verbally or psychologically abusive: abusers Never change for the better. Ditto for guys that lie to you: it's a pathological flaw that they will continue to manifest for the remainders of their respective natural lives.

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Answer 2

...make time..