I've been dating a couple years now, and the ones that seem to be right on paper, aren't the ones I am connecting with. I connect with the ones that aren't responsible, got baggage, blah blah blah. I am ready for a serious commitment, actually tired of what's NOT out there....and want to get on with my life....tired of being single and looking...... anyone else like that out ther (gals) or any guys with some good advice?
2006-09-11 14:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
speaking from personal experience, DON'T SETTLE for anything less just to avoid being alone. The right guy will come along when you least expect it. But PLEASE don't settle. Wouldn't you rather be single than unhappy in something? We sometimes don't seem to know our worth as females. List your good qualities as a confidence boost and when you meet a guy, ask yourself "does he deserve someone with these qualities? Will I be as happy as He'd be with me?"
2006-09-11 18:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding Mr/Mrs right is not an easy thing, I've been looking for a lady my whole life. After 23 years I'm about to give up, the good ones never seem to care about you the way you need them to, I know I have many friends, but never someone close. The worst thing is I'm apparantly the nicest guy these woman have ever met, but not one of them has ever given me a chance. So go figure...
2006-09-11 14:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah... my name is heath. i go by heathen with my friends. i know what you are going through. i married a woman who was a marine and from the time we got together until the end she lied about things that didn't even matter. i knew her all the way back in high school and she still deceived me as to who she really was. it's frustrating and i had to leave because even i tried to convince myself i was crazy. it always happens to people like us because we want to believe the best about people even when we kn the outcome will be bad. you are a good person so don't think this is on you at all, unless you were guilty of deceiving also. as for me, i can't wait to finalize my divorce to try again for a more worthy companion.
2006-09-11 14:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Heathen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
raise your standards. don't turn the good guys away without FULLY looking into who they are. TRUST ME... from a guys point of view, I feel good guys finish last. ON PAPER, I am a good guy, a cop part time, make good money working only 3 days a week, and raising me 3 kids alone...... but when the kids are gone and the lights are out.... well...... lets just say I can curl your toes and tell you stories that would make a whore blush.
2006-09-11 14:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by spedtrap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go for the ones that jump straight to you. Go for the guys that have enough respect for you and themselves to not jsut flrit with you and get with you as fast as they can. If you go somewehre dont say yes to the first guys that aask u out or go for u. wait till you get the ones that wait a little bi tto get ot know you first
2006-09-11 14:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by xirekaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the start gown properly. in case you already do, then come across a extra appropriate circle of acquaintances or a collection you carry around with. it rather is hassle-free to point out the respectful people and the abusers. like the way they talk,act,gown and so on.
2016-11-07 03:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural to be attracted to the wrong types because they're so different from who you are. Enjoy being single why you can cause relationships mean your problems and their problems. Don't go looking, let them come to you
2006-09-11 14:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need therapy.
Think of it as a necessary adjustment.
Imagine the therapist putting a screwdriver in your ear and turning it just a quarter turn.
This is all you probably need.
2006-09-11 14:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look 4 the nice sweet guys most of them r in front of you
2006-09-11 14:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋