Well at my first job last year I met a guy and he started to like me and then i did. Well we used to make out in the stock room but nothing else! ( yeah but im still not too proud of that) Well he said I couldnt be his girlfriend because I wanted to wait till marriage before doing th "deed." Well I still REALLY like him but the thing is Im SUPER shy around him and on the phone we barely talk but he doesnt ever really make the effort t really get to now me. A couple of weeks ago i asked if he still liked me and he said "yeah i do like u. I think youre beautiful!" But i dontunderstand when were on the phone he says he'll call me bac later and he never does. I always visit him at his new job and hes always very happy to see me. He tries to speak to me but i get super shy and dont speak. So I just need to understand if he likes me y doesnt he ever call back and make a realy effort to get to know me? And no rude comments please! :)
2006-09-11 13:46:31 · 4 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i never said I wanted to get married. Im not even ready for that. I just want a guy that will be with me for ME not just for 1 thing.
2006-09-11 13:52:10 · update #1
the thing with guys and the phone...it always happens to me. the guy says he'll call back and doesnt. some just dont like talking on the phone. its easy to see why. they rather talk to u in person, seeing you and everything. =) try not to be so shy around him, talk about what he likes and what u both have in common. and good for you for not giving in to "the deed" yet. believe me, that will be great in the long run!! good luck.
2006-09-11 13:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by azndiva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like that aren't worth anything, not ur time or your niceness. there are so many other ppl other there and i'm sure he's not the one for you. right now that guy is def not into something serious. if he really liked you, he would want to go out his way to talk to you and see you. the only reason he keeps dropping those sweet little comments is to get you to change your mind about the deed, and i think u have a great idea to keep it until that perfect time with the guy who really loves you.
2006-09-11 13:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by lauriecherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not making the effort because he knows that you won't have sex with him. So right away he's given up on you, although he may still act like he likes you. He knows that there is no chance to sex you anytime soon, so he doesn't waste time to call you back. Guys are just a$$oles.
2006-09-11 14:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, hes not about to go on and date a girl who he cant share things with and hes not about to run off and marry you.
2006-09-11 13:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋