my friend lied to me about dating my ex should i be mad at her?

Answer 1

Well you shouldn't be happy that she lied to you ofcourse. So sure, it's ok to be upset about her lying to you. The real question is are you more upset that she's dating your ex or that she lied about it? If it's just the lying part, this should be easy for the two of you to get through. Tell her that you wished she wouldn't have lied, it was kind of a lousy thing to do, next time to tell you these things, and let's move on. If it's more about the ex than it is the lying.. then I'd say you 'both' have some rough times ahead.

Answer 2

I would not blame you for being angry. I had the same thing happen to me, but it ended up with her blowing up on me and... well, it's a long story.

But friends are supposed to be honest with you. Don't be mad that your friend had feelings for your ex, that's only natural. You should be upset because if he/she lied to you this time, how will you know when he/she is telling the truth another time? What is a friendship based on if not on trust and honesty?

But you should also be happy for your friend, if he/she is still in this relationship. And although it may be akward for the three of you to spend time together, everything happens for a reason, right? For whatever reason it did not work out between the two of you, and that's fine. I know it will always feel weird to see the two of them sharing something you may have thought you may have had, but boy/girlfriends come and go, and a friendship is worth fighting over. And like they say, it's not a friendship until there is a fight, and hopefully this will be your last one. Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Are you 2 romantically involved? If so DEFINATELY, if not.... I usually don't tolerate lies especially from friends but ask yourself how close of a friend is this? Are you too intrusive in her life? Maybe she knew you wouldn't be happy about it or maybe she even feels you were part of the problem in their relationship. Most importantly, if she is a good friend, be happy for her if she has once again found happiness and quit taking things so personally.

Answer 4

Hi :)
First, try to find out what were the reasons that made her lie. Then you can see if it is worth being mad at. However, being friends is such a noble thing that justifies forgiving the people we love

Answer 5

ya, she should have been honest with you about it, especially when you asked. I would tell her that you wern't offended if she wants to date the guy, but the fact that she lied about it is brutal and ignorant. My personnal opinion is that you just don't date your friends exes, thats a no go zone in my books.

Answer 6

yes, not because she dated you ex its her right to date who she wants! but she should not have lied to you about it! she made a bad decision on lying to you she should of just told you she was dating you ex!

Answer 7

Yeah, you have a right to be disappointed, but not mad, being angry or mad, leaves no room for forgiveness, talk to the both of them, sometimes their a motive to their deception, and it could be for your benefit. remember females can be devious when they want something, and they will lie when trying to protect you.

Answer 8

yes you should but tell her how you feel about that to get it out of the way otherwise if you stay mad at her you might lose a friend

Answer 9

well are you mad at her? if you have no feelings for this guy,and it dosnt bother you that there dating the only problem I see is that she lied.

Answer 10

well i think it all depends on how serious the relationship was and how long yall been apart, if yall parted as friends then it should be alrite, but she should of came at u and talked to u about it