If you've met someone new,and they dont know your gay do u tell them? because I met this girl during the summer and we've benn hamging out for awhile. I asked her some questions and she seems to be ok with homosexuals. so should i say any thing or keep my mouth shut? i dont wanna lose a new friend
2006-09-11 13:39:10 · 14 answers · asked by lala 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell her. if she doesn't like you anymore, she never was a friend. if she doesn't mind, you might have a new lover.
2006-09-11 13:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by the greg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best answer I can give you is it's up to you. Everydoby has their own comfort level and reasons when it comes to outing themselves. Some people out themselves to everyone for various reasons. Ohters don't tell a soul unless they have to. Do what you think is right. Most people I've found don't really care about another person's preference, and I'm one of those people that outs myself to everyone.
2006-09-12 04:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. But if you are not interested in her as a potential partner, you should make that clear in the beginning. Just let her know things aren't going to change, you are still the same person. She should respect your honesty and it might make your friendship stronger.
2006-09-11 20:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a part of who you are. it depends on what kind of relationship you are developing with her, and how much you want to confide in her. if you were straight would you already be talking to her about your love life? if you are ready to take it to that point with her, then you will have to tell her that you like women, and then you can move from there. the others are right in that, if she rejects you, then you really dont want her as a friend anyway...
2006-09-11 23:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that is tough question. That all depends on what kind of relationship you have. If you have a crush on her, maybe not. But if your just buddies maybe it okay.
If she is open minded she will accept your sexual preference. But if you feel uncomfortable about it then you might want to keep to yourself.
2006-09-11 21:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ok with gays/lesbians, there's no reason why you should fear her to treat you any different. If you trust your friend, and she trusts you, then you should tell her. Tell her in a cool way...like "did you know I am gay/lesbian too?" And most likely she'd be like "Oh cool, how long, etc."
2006-09-11 21:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If she is a true friend she will accept you no matter what. I was friends with a girl in college who frequently talked about her "husband". She later told me that she was "married" to a woman.It didn't make a difference to me! I liked her for who she was not what she did or didn't do!
2006-09-11 20:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by lcplyr7 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, 9x's out of 10 she already knows and it doesn't matter, on the other hand, if she freaks you are better off without her.
2006-09-11 20:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no tell her the truth.be truthful with her.if she's understanding of homosexuals?then she'll undestand.just let me know how everyth
ing goes.and maybe we can be friends.
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2006-09-11 21:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do not want to loose a friend keep your mouth shut.
2006-09-11 20:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋