your the aggressor! your hot! awake or asleep, you devour him with your love yet he snubs you. you keep trying but he still resists. you know he loves madly yet this happens most everytime. what went wrong?
2006-09-11 12:39:30 · 40 answers · asked by pete cochino 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like he's cheating on you !
2006-09-11 12:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rude dog 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He may (or may not) love you madly but if you'r "all over him" and the aggressor, that may be a turn off to him. Some men like to be the initiator of sexual encounters. Perhaps if he loves you so much, you just need to LIGHTEN UP and see if things get warmer. If not, have a gentle conversation about what the problem is. Could he have a physical problem that is making it impossible to have sex? A talk with his doctor is in order if this is the problem. And you might not be loved as much as you say. Be ready for that option to surface too.
2006-09-11 12:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time, that is what went wrong. You probably have been together a long time and us men sometimes do not realize what we have until it's gone. You need to sit down with your husband with no distractions, no radio no TV and have a serious talk. He may not realize that you are hurting, which I know you are. He doesn't know how you feel unloved. You need to be very serious with him. He may not wake up until you are gone. If this continues much longer you will be gone. There are many men that would love to treat you like the woman that you deserve to be treated like.
I speak from experience, I was like your husband and now I am grieving the loss of my wife, she left me last Sunday because of neglect. I am a wiser person, I have seen the light and if I have the chance to love my wife again, believe me when I say I will love her like she deserves to be loved. For I never want to go through the pain and hurt that I am going through now.
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2006-09-11 12:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by sharkscue 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could be your timing, some days are more stressful than other, maybe he is not letting go of the stress and is very distracted by it. Maybe you could try jumping him in the morning before he gets out of bed or maybe in the shower with him. Do not give up on him, I hope he is just preoccupied with work, you sound like a very sexual loving mate, keep up the good work ;-)
2006-09-11 13:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he loves you ! if this man loves you he would not reject you without a very good reason i won,t go to say hes having an affair as it could be a under laying medical problem which he or you don.t know about , you need to talk to him and get to know what the problem is if at all there is one , but getting to know where you stand will give you peace of mind.
good luck
2006-09-11 13:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he like the chase? Be more of a tease and less forward maybe he like that option.....Look for hidden reasons also his work stress etc? Make him relaxed massage his back make him a great stress free dinner and don't expect sex. Or is he seeing another??? Look at everything going on...and don't take it as rejecting as it maybe his problem.
2006-09-11 12:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immature men can't handle the aggression unless they are the aggressor. He hasn't learned how to be submissive and probably think that it is lame or gay.
You can take control but tone down your aggression until he learns how to handle it.
(PS) I think that is so sexy!
2006-09-11 12:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with you? why are you all over him. all men don't like sex thrown in their faces. some men still want to do the chasing. is that your only approach. where did you learn that from. these days men get tired of the a** real fast, especially with women like you obliging them to their every whelm, it's a wonder why he get's bored with your a**. it's old.find a new trick.
2006-09-11 13:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What went wrong? I'd like to know, too.
Some guys do not want the woman to be in charge. It makes them less of a man.
Where were you 30 years ago for me?!
2006-09-11 12:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman all over the man and he doesnt like it................
Is he gay??
No, I am just Kidding.
Perhaps his sex drive is down due to a medical condition,
Ask him to see a doctor.
I know easier said than done.
Good Luck!!
2006-09-11 13:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a medical problem, like can't get it up or something, and he's embarassed or frustrated. Just ask him very gently if there's a problem, that if he wants to see a doctor, you completely understand.
2006-09-11 12:41:29 · answer #11 · answered by Eric H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋