And I mean when a guy is genuinely interested in you and tries to pick you up in a respecful way (not being annoying, obscene or disrespectful in any way). In many cases it will be the only opportunity we will have to meet you because we might never cross paths with you again. Yes or no and why?
2006-09-11 12:28:46 · 9 answers · asked by Carlu 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
it's quite a quandry - I don't like creepy guys chatting me up, but otherwise it sure is hard to meet men...
as long as you keep it not creepy and you're quick to bail if she is disinterested, it's probably a good thing to try
2006-09-11 12:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, most of us dislike that. With everything going on in the world today, how do you know who you can trust? If the paths are meant to cross, they will many times, not just once. Then again, there are those who like to live life on the edge!
2006-09-11 19:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a decent man. But when it is a idoit that bothers you with lame lines or is obviously a loser then yes it is annoying. We don't like shallow men so if you come up and immediately say something about our body or looks then it might equal a rejections. Other than that, if the guy is decent looking and acting then it makes us feel coffident and good about ourselves. I wish a cool guy would've come up to me and asked me out, they never do only losers.
2006-09-11 19:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind it, but u would have to be really charming to pull it off, as long as u can tell when the girl is not interested and u stop talking to her, otherwise u will look like a weird stalker . It is nice to be chatted up though, makes us feel special and pretty, even if it comes to nothing:-)
2006-09-11 20:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by bobatemydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because the day that all kinds of men want to speak on the street is the day that you're in a rush. If you think you're the first approaching her, you're wrong.
2006-09-11 19:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by LaMorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mostly depends on who the girl is.
most girls enjoy being picked up by a stranger as long as they are charming, respectful and sincere. otherwise stay the **** away.
2006-09-11 20:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are SUPER respectful, they may respond. It just looks like a "hooker" moment to ask someone out in "drive-by" mode, don't you think??
2006-09-11 19:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jerzey Daze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope to dislike, yup to like! can be fun.
2006-09-11 19:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't dislike it, but it's all about approach.
2006-09-11 20:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by cuppycake♀ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋