without them knowing you're prying?
2006-09-11 12:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by badseed 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
sex and black male
2006-09-11 15:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could ask a question like the above. But I know that you are trying to pry an answer out of me.
2006-09-11 19:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by SPLATT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not easy- it depends on the person and your relationship with them. You need some other activity to where oyu have some time to spend with them, so they become more comfortable, relaxed... lettikng conversations happen naturally about all different subjects that interest them.. then wind your way around to the mater you wish to know more about... you have to take almost a side door approach to it. I wish oyu had given more info, such as like who you are trying to get info from, and what the nature of the info that you wanted was. We all might be able to think of some lead in questions to get the onformation to come forward. I thikn the key is though to build that trust, have good conversation going, and being as causal as you can be.
2006-09-12 00:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must patronize them without them knowing you are doing it then the info will come. Talk about a related subject and throw in compliments and give them a warm fuzzy about you and then it will be a piece of cake. But, are you the kind of person who would do that? Is it ethical? Probably not since patronising usually involves "stretching" the truth a little. Personally, I don't have the stomach for it. Good luck!
2006-09-11 22:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them questions or just start talking about something and see how they react to what u are saying.. and then ask them if they know anything about it n if they say no then ask them y they are starting to get all gittery or however they are reacint... u can tell someones lieing because of body language
2006-09-11 19:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private eye, or beat them with oranges in a tube sock until they don't care if they live or die
2006-09-11 19:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you use reverse sociology make them feel kind of guilty like they owe you something
2006-09-11 19:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Leah k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Torture isn't prying... is it?
2006-09-11 19:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by kchivers-carter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alcohol
2006-09-11 19:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by sroldan562 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋