I love my husband and he knows that but I can't understand what's wrong with him. Yesterday I asked him to make the cunnilingus for me, he said he's tired but tomorrow. Today he took only one minute and then he forced me to make sex. I hate that. I told him that I would like something romantic. I always talk to him about how is our couple but nothing change. Is anybody can tell me what to do? I'm tired.
2006-09-11 12:11:16 · 15 answers · asked by lounalove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go back to Russia.
2006-09-11 12:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he just doesn't like giving you cunnilingus. You should ask him why he doesn't like to do it to you. Perhaps you have an offending odor, he hates the taste, it makes him feel sick... Well, do you reciprocate the favor for him? If you do things for him than he should do it for you. That sucks that he forces you to "make sex" after doing stuff to you for a minute. Seriously find out what is wrong- And then figure out how to on from there- whether it be couples therapy, a seperation, divorce... Good luck.
2006-09-11 12:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relatiopnship is a fairey tail.Thats what happen in marrige.Do you know the average couple talks only 15 min a day.And when you get married your sex life changes.Its that way for every couple.So if you divorce and find someone knew it will end up the same.Plus the man works for a living dont you think hes tired to.
2006-09-11 12:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by flylilangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I think you two have a communication problem ,by the sounds of it he thinks that Cunnilingus is just a preview to intercourse and that it only takes a moment to get you hot enough to achieve that goal . My honest opinion is that you need to sit him down and explain that you really enjoy this part of your coupling and that as a part of this partnership of love making that he can heighten your enjoyment and his also by driving you to the brink by stimulating you in the way you desire , surly you think your marriage is worth the time to discus your desires and the way you will get mutually more out of your sex sessions together . you say that you love him I have an Idea that might just get him onto your path of thinking email me... No Im not a sleeze trying to pick you up .
2006-09-11 12:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long u have been married but when he tried to force sex on you then that was your time to take a stand. You don't deserve that and you shouldn't let him make you feel guilty. Have you tried marriage counseling? I would at least tell him that you want to go or you've just had enough and are thinking about a seperation. Good luck and speak up....
2006-09-11 12:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD LOOK IN UR HEART AND SEE HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. LOVING AND BEING ROMANTIC ARE SUPPOSE TOCOME NAUTRALLY 2 PEOPLE WHOM SAY THEY INLOVE. I WOULDNT LET ANYONE FORCE THER SELF ON ME,NOT EVEN MY HUSBAND. NO MEANS NO!!!!!!!!!! I THINK IF THINGS DONT CHANGE 4 U. , YOU MIGHT NEED TO THINK ABOUT A DIVORCE. HOW COULD HE LOVE U AND THEN TREAT U THAT WAY. LEAVE HIM 4 A WHILE, TO SEE HOW THINGS CHANGE.U DESERVE MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-11 12:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is based solely on sex, it's already doomed. Divorce him and find some sex starved truck driver to keep you happy.
2006-09-11 12:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are tired. You can't type a coherent sentence. If you "make sex" like you write, maybe that is your problem, dearie.
2006-09-11 12:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted head and he wanted sex no biggie.....seriously...Is your marriage over because of this or is there more you are not telling us?
BTW him going down on you might turn him on and he might than want sex...idea
2006-09-11 12:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K., let me see if I got this right considering your horrid grammar.
You would divorce your husband because he does not want to perform oral sex on you or because he does not perform it long enough.... Correct so far???
2006-09-11 12:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋