Ok well every dance i have been to, i just stand in the back and watch the other ppl dance. After, I always regret going, and theres a casual dance coming up next week and I need to know how to have a good time and i feel like an idiot trying to dance and i get all self cautious, i tried to dance once, and it looked like everyone was looking at me funny. i need help please
2006-09-11 12:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by Dray 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
EASY!
get a bunch of friends and dance
you cant just HAVE fun
you have to let yourself have it
just pretend ur in ur room dancing ur sox off
2006-09-13 17:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by woot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who had the same problem. He secretly took dance lessons & after only a little while, he not only had the confidence to dance in public...but he was in hot demand with the ladies. I don't know if it would work for you, but he swears by it & now he'll even tell people to take lessons. He says it helped his confidence, coordination, and it taught him to dance & he's since found a wonderful girlfriend & they are taking ball-room dance together.
I'm not sure what to tell you if you've only got less than a week, but maybe you could find someone to hang out with and maybe even take a gal that isn't too good at dancing either. Then, if you liked her, you might ask if she'd be interested in taking lessons with you. It's just a thought. Good luck!
2006-09-11 12:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends and I always had the same situation, so we decided to get all dressed up, do what you usually do for a dance, go for an hour, and then plan a little party at someones house, watch movies, anything that you like to do. So this way, you can go to the dance, and still have fun later that night, and the whole night wasn't a waste of time. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 12:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by ce1121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to either bring a date or a group of friends to just hang with so you won't be lonely.
DANCE!!! Don't stand in the background get out there and shake those tail feathers.
If you don't know how to dance don't be shy ask a friend who's the life of the party to teach you how to dance.
Come to the dance in style that way even if you do stand in the background again you'll be looking good while doing it.
Well PLEASE try to have a good time!!!
2006-09-11 12:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dee I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One good thing would be to bring a date. Then you will have someone to dance with. If you go stag, then try not to look so nervous. Just relax and have fun. I'm sure most people there don't dance so hot either but they're there to just have fun! Try not to look around so much when you dance. If you're looking at people waching you then you'll mess up!
2006-09-11 12:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by peg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sons took care of the dancing problem by purchasing "Dance, Dance Revolution" for their PS2. All of their friends come over and "practice" their dancing before any event. They all have a great time and lose the feeling that everyone is watching them! Plus it is great exercise!
2006-09-11 12:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by mrschrismoose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dance in the middle of the crowd,as packed tightly next to others as u can get-no one will see anything but the top of ur head,and u wont be able to move much,anyway.plus,u'll look popular,right in the middle of a big crowd -worked 4 me !!!!!!! ps-try a wine cooler or two,if u can.
2006-09-11 12:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoke a big fat Dube! Unintereting becomes very delightfuly interesting suddenly. Its the only thing I can do before I go to my In-Laws house for a dinner. Otherwise, I would not go!
2006-09-11 12:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The practise make the master.Practise more, and get a good partner (who really can help you).Enjoy it.Good luck.
2006-09-11 12:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dance it doesn't matter how bad u dance just hav fun
2006-09-11 12:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by It'S mEeH!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋