My gf and i are 14 we have been together for a while now. Today i walked her to her house. And she said to come in. So i did. She wanted me to take my cloths off and she said I will be right back. I didn't want to have sex because were too young so she comes out with out her top on. She said are you going to take your'e coths off? I took my shirt off and thats it. she was all over me. she said tomorrow i want to see it all off an you will see me like this again.
What should i do. I won't have sex with her. what should I say/do i really like her!!!!
2006-09-11 11:58:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I wouldn't go to her house alone. Things can get out of hand before you know. It takes a lot of courage and strength to say no to sex. You gave in enough by taking your shirt off (don't let your girlfriend talk you into anything else you're not comfortable with) Be honest about your feelings. Tell your girlfriend you're not ready. If she doesn't understand, then you really should find someone who respects your feelings. Be strong!!
2006-09-11 15:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really tempting. LoL. If I am you ,even my moral say I shouldn't, I will still trying to find a valid excuse to go for it. And I think the reason you are asking here because you are hoping one of us will have a good enough excuse to persude urself to go for it. I maybe wrong. Of course, I am not encouraging you about this at all!
I know it is hard .. for guys. According to my experience, however, the girl will resepct you more if you can hold on to what she requests. If you do whatever she demands, very soon you will become her slave and she will ALWAYS have upperhand in this relationship.
If you want to be the man and make her to be the one who beg you on stuff, then you should say NO. Of course, you give up the pleasure of having sex. However, you ger much more in return.
You don't need to worry of being ilegal so you can sleep well every nite. Also, you will respect yourself more since you decide what should do and not.
I am sure she just has an urge of having sex ..maybe due to curioisity or peep pressure. You have to know girls are emtional. They change OFTEN. When she clams down, she will actual mad at you and think you TOOK ADVANTAGE on her and mad at you. And you will end up sitting in jail thinking ' What the hell!?'.haha.
Anyway, try not to have sex. Diverse ur energy by playing basketball or video games or whatever you think is productive.
good luck!
2006-09-11 14:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. first of all, i just want to tell you how awesome it is to actually hear a guy say that he doesn't want to have sex because he knows he is too young. seriously, never change that perspective and you will get a ton of girls (well, at least girls with a little respect for themselves.) ok, so here's what you should do: let her know how you feel about this, that you're not comfortable with stripping or getting into that sorta stuff right now. odds are she's not either, she's just doing this because she thinks thats what you want. either that or she really is into that, and then my advice would be to find someone else. seriously, don't ever sacrifice yourself just to keep someone interested.
2006-09-11 12:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by gertie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up-front with her. My personal opinion, as you stated, 14 is way too young to have sex. Even if you try to be as safe as possible, that doesn't mean that you can't get into some kind of trouble. I was once told that once you are ready to have sex then you are ready to have kids, which is something that I have kept in my mind ever since hearing it. Just don't do anything that either of you will regret.
2006-09-11 12:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever be alone with her again, don't go in her house or let her in yours unless a parent is home. Tell her you like her, but that you don't want to have sex. If she keeps pressuring you, tell her you're going to have to break up with her if that's all she wants. Tell her exactly how you feel. Although it seems to me she's not going to take no for an answer, so this relationship might have to be over. Good luck and stick to your guns!
2006-09-11 12:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by mommyem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw I even might want to provide you props for no longer desirous to bypass it is genuinely stunning!! are you able to easily pretend to get unwell or something? because you may't say your gf received't enable you bypass reason they're going to hate your gf for that and call you whipped!!!! or you may basically suck it up and tell them you hate strip golf equipment lol
2016-11-26 02:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by hone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe no guy has given u crap about this on here. but i guess i will stand from the crowd. DUDE CONSIDER THE SITUATION. THERE IS GUYS who would kill for a Girlfriend like that, dude just let go and don't be so up tight man.
2006-09-11 13:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, try saying no....
no means no, right?
If you don't want to have sex... say no. If she doesn't like it... don't date her. If she doesn't respect your feelings on the issue you shouldn't be with her anyways... she's a loser.
2006-09-11 12:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by kchivers-carter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what u want and she agaree if she dosent then break up with her but u should go a step future with the realtionship
2006-09-11 12:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by bf5005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Usually the other way around.
2006-09-11 15:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋