Before he left, we had an argument and he told me he needed some time on his own.. I am so worried as I have not heard from him. He said to leave him alone for a bit as he was getting too stressed about our relationship.. I worry though that he might not be thinking of me while he is gone? He is coming back at the end of September. He is with his best friend and they are both visiting their friend from college in Asia for a couple of weeks so I don't want to contact him just in case he may think I am checking up on him. I just worry I may not hear from him? I keep looking at my mobile but no news from him?
2006-09-11 11:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW my daughter's name is Violet and she was born 8.18
My boyfriend left me for the holidays pregnant and I haven't heard from him since. He knows he has a child and doesn't care obviously. Be careful.
2006-09-11 11:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wouldn't u like to know 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you asking this question in the ‘Marriage & Divorce Category’ if he is only your boyfriend???
Send him a short message… “I love you and miss you!”
You could perhaps have reason to worry about his safety in Asia, but it is best that you just send the above message, and leave things at that.
At least he will know that you are thinking of him, and he shouldn’t see it as you checking up on him.
Don’t be surprised if you don’t hear from him before he returns from Asia.
You only have a couple of weeks before he returns, so perhaps it is best to concentrate on the reasons he gets too stressed out about the relationship, and what you need to do to rectify that problem !!!
2006-09-11 18:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl you just have to let him have his space you can't hold on to someone if they do not want to be there give him the space he ask for and who knows while he's gone he'll have time to realize how much he really does love and miss you and he'll call and can't wait to get home to see you. But if not let him go it's not worth it everything happens for a reason and the reason here might be that he's moving out the way for someone better.
2006-09-11 18:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss thang 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you're really that worried you should call him. If he isn't calling you to let you know he's doing fine or thinking of you then you need to call him and see what's really going on and if your relationship is doing well or not.
2006-09-11 18:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk what to tell you if i were you i would just wait tile he is ready to talk to you and then after he calls you you should say i missed the sound of your vocie and he will be happy that you missed him or mabye he thinks that you are goin to get sick of waiting and call him who knows
2006-09-11 18:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Emma P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He bust up with you so his conscience is clear goin with girls while on holiday
text him
hey, why you no go with him?
2006-09-11 18:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋