a guy in my english class has a fetish with tickling me during class and making me laugh really hard. i try to tell him to stop but he wont quit. He thinks i like it cuz i laugh but i cant help it!! i think its really annoying and im tired of him touching me every two seconds..what should i do?!
2006-09-11 11:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by katie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wanna be nice about it also..unless it goes to far
2006-09-11 11:25:36 · update #1
As far as he is concerned, you are enjoying it because you have not really put your foot down. It is time to put your foot down now.
Call him aside and speak to him in private - preferably before the class starts. Tell him that is is not your intention to hurt or offend him but you really do not enjoy it at all when he tickles you and you expect it to stop immediately. Tell him that if he continues to tickle you you will take it as a sign of intentional disrespect because you have made it clear to him that you do not want him to tickle you anymore.
If he wants to be a friend or an acquaintance - he will respect you. If he still chooses to tickle you, cut off the friendship. The basis of any good friendship is respect. Without that, there is no friendship.
Good luck and all the best to you!
2006-09-12 15:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make it clear that you don't like it. The bad thing about tickling is that you are laughing when you are telling someone to stop and they usually don't believe that you want them to stop. Tell him when he is not tickling you that you don't want to be tickled, that you don't want to involve teachers but if he continues to tickle you that you will. Tell him not to be mad at you if you do tell a teacher because you gave him the choice to stop and he didn't take it.
2006-09-11 11:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by BLANK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your teacher and ask if she can arrange for you to sit some place else. If she asks why, tell her the full story of what's going on with this annoying boy!
2006-09-11 11:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like he's flirting in the only way he knows how without being too forward. Just tell him don't be scared! tell him its annoying and that it's bothering you in class like you need to do your work or something.
2006-09-11 11:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by preggo&luvinit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay girl tell em to step off and quit if your that unconfterble with it if he doesnt stop then get ur boyfriend or one of you guy friends to tell em wats up... and if you dont want to hurt his feelings tell em that you would like em 2 stop make up somethin like you have a boyfriend and hes a real jeliouse type
2006-09-11 11:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz Baby Phat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time he tickles you get up and stomp his foot. The hell with being nice.
2006-09-11 11:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well katie they just call me Big R,aka randy , first if your playing hard to get it wont work like that, now to answer your question, get him alone somewhere and just flat out tell him to Stop! let him know you dont like him touching you like Michael jackson does!, if it goes on let him know your going to report it to the teacher, i bet other babes would like it tell him just not you
2006-09-11 11:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probably just likes you and that is his way of showing it...but tell him how you really feel, or why don't you try moving to another seat
2006-09-11 11:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by raffi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you really don't like it and if you don't stop i wil tell the teacher that you are distracting me from my studies!!1
2006-09-11 11:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by jj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say this "OK I DON'T LIKE TO BE TICKLED SO PLEASE STOP' if he does not say "I ASKED YOU TO STOP IF U DONT ILL TELL THE TECHER'AND IF HE SAYS I THOUGHT U LIKED IT SAY "I ONLY LAUGH CAUSE I CAN'T HELPP IT!" IF HE WILL NOT STOP ASK THE TEACHER TO MOVE YOU OR TO TELL HIM TO STOP
2006-09-11 11:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋