I think i just lost a friend from a really pointless silly fight...?

Question

So my friend who is a boy have always like had pointless fights sense 6th grade...nothing serious really untill i found out he liked me.
Last Year in 7th grade i guess i kinda liked me so we went out for 2 m onths broke up and then went out again for about 2 months.
the 2nd break up was just like the fight yesterday over something really dum.b.
this is what happened yesterday....

me:so tell me something
him: i would tell you who i lke but you would tell her
me: i wouldnt tell i promise how bout this u tell me who u like and i tell you who i like?
him:fine her name starts with an M

so i guessed it a little later he asks who i like

so i say a guy i guy who lives in our city then a guy whos name starts with a B and then he was like just tell me who it is and i said no he was like fine is it me or bill i was like who is bill and he said a 6th graader so i said

No its not bill and NO its not you
he was like aww cuz he wasnted it to be him
so when he finnally guesses it i was like

he was like why would you even like him and this is what i said

because he is smart,and funny and he is TAll and he understands things and he knows theese things about me that i dont
and he is perfect to me and i dont even have to explain this to you because you wouldnt understand!

then he said

fine then sc.rew you

and then i sent this

its none of your business anyway u didnt even tell me why u liked (person he likes)
and another resoen is HE IS SO DIFFRENT FROM YOU!
i dont find any faults in him and if is i love them!


so yea... i dont feel bad but i dont want him starting rumors again..or talking about me behind my back...and i guess i dont want him mad at me...

to that one chick

WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH MYSPACE?????

Answer 1

u should tell him that he need to get over the fact that u like other people and that if he was i real friend he would not be getting mad like that over little things and that u ain't get mad at him when he told u who he like so it not a big deal

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Same occurred to me. I instructed him that he was once doing incorrect matters and men and women have been speaking approximately him badly however nonetheless smiling to his face -and he was once behaving like an asshole however that wasn't who he was once. He did not speak to me after that. I attempted so tough to avoid wasting our friendship however he does not appear to care. We are even within the identical school room, now he turns out to remorse what he is been doing to me beyond two years *speaking to me-now not speaking to me-announcing that he's sorry-then pretending that he does not care approximately our friendship* however good, it fairly hurts you understand. Not speaking to him and stuff. He attempts to speak to me at the moment however he even DELETED me from his FB, so good... Maybe that is what boys do after they CARE approximately their near peers and while you say them that they have got been doing anything incorrect they simply move dull. Or might be they simply do not care. Anyways, might be you will have to attempt to make an extended dialog approximately what he way to you, the way you care approximately your friendship and friendships by and large construct on believe so that you will have to be ready to inform him that he's doing incorrect while he's doing incorrect. Because that is what we do. Stand with them some thing occurs. Tell him the way you felt, inform him he was once hurting you and ask him if HE desires to maintain on doing this and misplaced a ten-12 months-historical friendship. I imply, speak to him. It'll support. Do now not make it a gigantic get together. Forget that factor like "satisfaction" ever exist. Because it is a friendship. It's principal. Risk. Trust. Talk. If he nonetheless behaves like that then give up speaking to him for ever. If he truthfully is aware he was once doing the incorrect factor he'll comprehend his mistake and are available to you. If he's a well buddy, you men normally will return on your historical friendship after "the speak". Hope I helped. I are aware of it was once an extended reply however as I stated identical factor occurred to me so I know the way it feels. Good success :)

Answer 4

Same happened to me. I told him that he used to be doing unsuitable things and humans have been speakme about him badly however nonetheless smiling to his face -and he used to be behaving like an asshole however that wasn't who he was once. He did not talk to me after that. I attempted so rough to avoid wasting our friendship however he would not seem to care. We're even in the same lecture room, now he appears to remorse what he is been doing to me earlier 2 years *talking to me-now not talking to me-saying that he is sorry-then pretending that he does not care about our friendship* but well, it relatively hurts you know. No longer talking to him and stuff. He tries to talk to me at the moment but he even DELETED me from his FB, so well... Maybe that's what boys do once they CARE about their shut friends and when you say them that they have got been doing some thing unsuitable they only go silly. Or probably they just do not care. Anyways, might be you must attempt to make a long conversation about what he means to you, how you care about your friendship and friendships most likely construct on trust so that you will have to be in a position to inform him that he's doing unsuitable when he's doing unsuitable. Due to the fact that that is what we do. Stand with them anything occurs. Inform him how you felt, inform him he used to be hurting you and ask him if HE needs to hold on doing this and lost a 10-12 months-ancient friendship. I mean, speak to him. It's going to aid. Do not make it a colossal occasion. Put out of your mind that thing like "delight" ever exist. Since it's a friendship. It's fundamental. Chance. Trust. Speak. If he nonetheless behaves like that then discontinue speakme to him for ever. If he simply is familiar with he was once doing the flawed thing he will understand his mistake and are available to you. If he is an efficient buddy, you guys on the whole will go back to your historic friendship after "the talk". Hope I helped. I are aware of it used to be a protracted reply but as I mentioned identical thing happened to me so i understand how it feels. Just right success :)

Answer 5

Just read your own question/statments! You aren't old enough to make sense of any relationship especially male/female. Do you realize how stupid this all sounds. You both need to apologize to each other, get past the GF/BF crap and save it for later.

Answer 6

where's the rest? tell ur friend to get over himself, if u don't like him, u just don't. FORGET HIM. Exes can't be friends, no matter what age..jeez..what are u doin on the computer anyway? did u hear about the myspace rapist..? but yes, the fight is dumb

Answer 7

well, dumb fights like that happen all the time when you're really close friends...you just have to try to talk it over with him...if he doesn't want to talk about it...give him some space fro a while... a week or two and then just try talking about something Else...guys usually get over things really quick

Answer 8

FINISH IT PLEAAAAAAAAAAASE...im N 8th grade too so i deal with all that DRAMA, ill answer when i get the rest of the question...haha okay SHANK. just apologize evn tho it wasnt ur fault. if he doesnt accept it then just be like "screw U TOO then" he probably likes u tho cuz he got mad u like sum1 else.

Answer 9

Um. So, if it was a silly fight, let him know that you apologize for your part in it. Let him know that you value his friendship and don't want silly arguements to come between the two of you.

Answer 10

wow this is not a prob you are in 8th grade go for another dude...Oh and this guy willforgive you in a week..Its just drama.