They keep saying there is no way I am straight if I am only attracted to guys, but I know that I have to be straight, it does not matter who I am attracted to! And as they say "no one knows you better than you know yourself." And I know I have to be straight!
2006-09-11 10:52:55 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Only being attracted to the same sex it the definition of homosexuality. You may not want to believe it, but you are more than likely gay. That's not a bad thing. It's just who you are. It took me awhile to accept it also.
2006-09-11 12:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Liir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read Natalie Sarot novel "You Don't Like Yourself"... it is enlightening in terms of self-comprehension...
as for your firends, I think they are right, but it does not matter really, because it is important that you admit it or quit... If you can stop being attracted to guys, OK, you are "straight"
But really, all these are just words (labels, some say), and if you want to call yourself "straight" it's ok... I see nothing devious in the fact you are attracted to guys, then you must be "straight"!
2006-09-13 03:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Randy Beaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you are the only one that know how you feel in your heart and if you feel you are straight then that is all that matters......
A true friend would not make fun of you because of the way you feel........
But I do have to say that if you are attracted to guys then you might be gay!!!!!!!
Why do you have to be straight????? Is it the way you were brought up?????
Hey just follow you heart and you will be fine.......
Good Luck
2006-09-11 11:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all you need to be honest with yourself, and when you are happy with what you are telling yourself, then and only then can you tell your friends with them believing. Everyone one looks at people, I'm a girl and I'm straight but yes you do notice other women, when some one looks after themself whether they are a girl or a guy - you notice
2006-09-11 10:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah yeah blah blah....been there done that....I was thinking that despite the fact that I like guys, I should be straight and shouldnt do these bad things....You have two choices: Hide it and not accept it, and be miserable and start cheating on your wife with other guys in your mid 40s or accept it -gradually if you have to, there is no rush- and live your life the way you are and the way that will make you really happy.
2006-09-11 12:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused. Are you attracted only to guys? If you are, you are almost certainly gay (whether you like it or not, and whether you choose to believe it or not). If you are attracted to both guys and girls then you could be bisexual. There is no point in resisting your true sexual orientation. If you are gay and repress it, and force yourself to live a straight life, you will lead a very unhappy life and possibly end up emotionally hurting others and yourself.
2006-09-11 10:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to guys you are not straight and you dont have to be straight. Be who you are stop thinking you are straight cause you are not if you are attracted to men. There is nothing wrong with being gay.
2006-09-11 10:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ARE you only attracted to guys? It's not a bad thing, you can't help liking who you like. If people are trying to force you to like the gender you don't like, to Hell with them eh? They're not you're real friends if they're pressuring you. You don't HAVE to be straight if it doesn't feel right, there is no law against being gay...yet, so just go with it.
2006-09-11 11:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sirius Black 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know truly how you feel...I think that if you are ONLY interested in guys ... well yes I would say you have gay tendencies.
At the end of the day you gotta be true to yourself. What does it matter if you are 'gay' 'straight' or 'bisexual' just be true to yourself.
2006-09-11 10:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by skippy's mum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ur saying doesnt make any sense. You never mentioned once being attracted to women, sooooooooo...................How do you consider yourself straight?? Do you want to get it on with a girl or a guy is how to tell , it's pretty simple.
2006-09-11 10:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋