Ok the hubby looks at porno... I get it and I'm fine with that. He is an adult and can look at what he wants. My problem is that the other night I came into the room and hubby did not realize I saw that he was looking for webcam/chat porno sites. When he did realize he shut out the browser completely so I couldnt ask him to hit back. Then looking into history I find he has been visiting adultfriend finder and ifriend. He denies it of course. Says he is only looking for porn. I ask him why he closed out the browser the other night then and he said it was because he was embarrassed. Bullsh*t. We have been married 14 years and never been embarrassed. All of a sudden he grows a conscience?
What do you think he was doing and/or hiding? And should I confront him about it. Usually he will lie like a dog.
2006-09-11 10:41:29 · 10 answers · asked by lisa n florida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your line "I get it and I'm fine with that" is a prelim to what has occured.
You and other women or men should not be fine with their spouses going on porn sites, movies, or magazines. It first starts in thought, entertainment of that thought leads to action. He was well on his way to action. The next step would be meeting someone.
Get counseling for the both of you. Something is missing and it needs to be found.
Remember, it is never fine with porno...ever. Soon he will lose all relationship with emotinal and intimate sexual relations with you and then he will lose relation with the porno and he will need an extreme course of action.
Please take care of your marriage it is in peril. You can't see it, but this admission is a fact to that.
2006-09-11 11:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Martin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG I have the same problem with my husband!! he is lying and hiding something from you. most likely he is doing nasty chats with real people via cam! Closing the entire web down he was trying to hide something. This is only going to be the begining of your problems if this continues there will be many many fights between you two. As he will most likely wanna be online large amounts of time and become more secertive towards you! At worse he can meet someone he likes to "cam" with and maybe meet them in person for the real thing! I know my husband does this quite often...not meeting them but forming real relationships with these people. This is cheating regardless if he thinks it is or not! Lay down the law and tell him this crap goes or you go. these things are not acceptable because they only get worse...wish Yahoo! Answers were around for me back when my problem 1st started!
Trust me please do something about this ASAP...you might even wanna look into blocking these sites from your PC.
2006-09-11 10:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He enjoys looking at porn and you caught him looking at personals. Maybe he was tired of looking at the pornstars and the woman made up for sex and wants to see the girl next door. Maybe he heard a coworker is nude on the site and wants to see her( better there than in person) Now if he is looking a child porn turn the sick basterd in and divorce him at once
2006-09-11 13:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 06:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he is definitely hiding something. I enjoy looking at porn with my significant other. If he is going to lie, then what's the point in asking him. Maybe you should set him up and catch him.
2006-09-11 10:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he only wants to look at porn then why is he looking a sex personals websites??..i would be calm about and start checking up more until i found something more concrete..then confront him..
2006-09-11 11:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by malanina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hubby is looking for a playmate.
2006-09-11 10:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by rikv77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn to delete history.
2006-09-11 10:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Leprechaun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry for you worries, he's out looking for some fun and your not included in his plans...
2006-09-11 10:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were keeping your husband happy, he wouldn't be looking.
2006-09-11 11:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋