i have a problem and i do not know who to tell.see i have had a bad habit of wanting to die when i get into fights with people or just something happens.my doctor says it is depression and i have been to counsling and othing seems to help should i tell and if so who
2006-09-11 10:16:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are showing suicidal tendancies and anger problems.
You should visit a psychologist or psychiatrist and discuss your problems. You may need medications for depression. Most likely you suffer from clinical depression.
2006-09-11 10:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty extreme huh? Glad you see it as such. Sounds like a personality issue, not necessarily a "depression" issue. The annoying thing with counseling and docs is that sometimes, like anyone else, they get it wrong and you don't get what you need.
Call up a counselor/social worker/psych office and explain that you need to learn some coping skills/problem-solving skills, and gain some self-esteem. You can do that and it will help like crazy.
I imagine there's more to it than that, but just those few things would change your life. If your doc or counselor doesn't work for you, get a new one. This is absolutely a fixable issue.
In the meantime, start doing something creative when you are upset. Something action oriented, like boxing, running, swimming, meditating, etc. Look up stress management on the web. You'll be amazed at all the strategies there are to change how things make us feel.
Best of luck. You'll be okay.
2006-09-11 17:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to die is not a "bad habit" it's a sickness that needs to be treated. If the anti-depressants are not working and you have given them time to work than try thinking about other people. Work at a homeless shelter, be a big brother or sister, become a candy stripper at the hospital. If you focus more on other people needs and less on yourself you WILL feel better. If you see real people would are far worse off than you it will make you feel better about your own.Find reasons to live this world is awesome!!!
2006-09-11 17:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that happens too me all the time. You are lucky to be able to see doctors and counselors. I can't. I think it would be best to tell a member of your family you are close to how you feel. Asking the counselor why you still feel like this after all the sessions you had with them would also probably be a good idea. Just don't keep it hidden like I do, that tends to make it worse.
2006-09-11 17:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by The Mosh Pit Queen: Hoser 4 Life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go see your doctor again. It is what your doctor said it is. You need help with those types of things. No one on this site can give you advice like that unless they are a doctor.
2006-09-11 17:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should talk to ur family members(not szaying it will do a lot of help) but just get all of the bad things out of ur system and that should help u feel betta!!! i hope i helped
2006-09-11 17:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by kwi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow well do you have a friend that would understand what your going through. i know many poeple who have felt this way. do you think if you had someone your own age to talk do you think that would help some.
2006-09-11 17:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by vickie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't know what to tell ,neither do i
a good person who can be with you ,to understand you ,to accept you and love you as you are ,that person can help you to get out from that problem
good luck
2006-09-11 17:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Amoureuse♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try just tolking to God, he is listening when there is no one else, talk from the heart and he will answer you.
2006-09-11 17:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Wan R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah doc is rightttt
2006-09-11 17:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋