my boyfriend and i have been together for two years and i'm just not happy with him and i havent been for a long time i have just been realizing that he doesnt have the qualites i want in a man and i have never broken up with any one and i don't know what to say and we live together which makes it even harder help please
2006-09-11 10:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by gunitgrl627 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, be honest tell him you are not happy and you know things are not going to change and you think you guys should break up.Then you guys need to decide who is moving out .Then that person needs to move out and don't look back.Good luck!My other question is you spoke of not happy though you didn't bring up love. Do you love him and just not happy or are you not in love with him and not happy either.That is something else you have to think about before you end it.
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2006-09-11 10:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be hard but just let him know that you'd like to move on. You haven't been happy for a long time and that it's nobodies fault, it's just that you think it's not in the cards for you to be a couple. Don't blame anyone, just tell him that you care about him but you don't want to be together. Good luck.
2006-09-11 10:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres waht you can say: i think we should just be friends because im not happy and you dont have the qualities that i want in a man. Im not trying to hurt your feelings but this is how im feeling. Maybe you should talk to him too. he might be feeling the same too. BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-09-11 10:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy if you are not happy tell him you are not happy. Tell him we have to end this relationship and that is best for both of you, if you both move on. Do not worry about breaking it to him gentle. You do not want to keep it going on from here, so end it the way it needs to be ended.
2006-09-11 10:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry don't be scared we all have our times just tell him how u feel and how you you aren't happy when your with him and you really don't feel like he is the one and tell him your going to find a woman that is right for you tell him u just want to be friends and that is it ok?
2006-09-11 10:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by IRock Haha u Don't 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to him to look in your eyes ,then tell him that you are not happy with him and you're stressed out because of that rerlationship ,SO ,you decieded to Break up
it's so easy ,believe me
2006-09-11 10:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Amoureuse♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right after sex, say "I hope you liked that because it's the last you're gonna get from me."
2006-09-11 10:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it the longer you wait the harder it will be..
bite the bullet and do it now....
2006-09-11 10:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by ralph 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋