my bro.(the one dat iz gay)says that he feels lyk he shud be a gurl
2006-09-11 10:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by Jazzi_Pha 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When she lets you know that she'd prefer you to recognize and treat her as a she. Most m/f T people really appreciate being addressed as a she.
2006-09-11 11:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she tells you she's TS then she has always been female. If she isn't living female 24/7 then when she's dressed female or in private. Sexual Reassignment Surgery isn't what makes her a woman, you have to prove your female to get the surgery.
Tammi Dee
2006-09-11 17:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for your question. If your brother would like for you to call him "she" then that's up to you and him. It is certainly ok to do so. I hope he is getting some good cousneling from professional people like counselors that he can trust. For some of us, understanding our identity as human beings, including our sexuality, is more complicated. It takes time and loving help. I want to thank you for being such a good brother and being there for him. It is just the right thing to do.
2006-09-11 17:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess when they start actin' and dressing the part or when they say start calling me a gurl, woman, she, her, whateves! remember to try and be supportive.
2006-09-11 18:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When others know that your brother isn't going by he anymore but is going by she now. So you'll refer to him as she instead of he when they know.
2006-09-11 17:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never they will always be a guy or a girl (whatever their gender was when they were born) to me you cant change it with surgery
2006-09-11 19:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell you. I've never been in that situation.
2006-09-11 17:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by grey_sky_morning84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they 'look like' a she.
2006-09-11 17:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋