ok.here's the problem.there's this guy in my college & i'm new there,he's not.he's the only guy i haven't talked with still.
apparently he hadn't had much luck with girls & he had told my friends that he's 'kind of laying off girls for the time being".anyone got any tips on how to start talking to him without making it too obvious?my friends have this idea abt inviting us to a conference online & then signing off,leaving us to do the talking so that it won't feel too awkward at school...will that work or are there any better strategies?
p.s.he's not in any of my classes,i see him only at break but he's coming to this youth group thing in church which i'll probably attend as well
usually,i'm a very outgoing person,but in this situation the problem is that i started liking him before talking to him...
thanks for all your suggestions.really appreciate it :)
2006-09-11 10:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by hu_ru_anyway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be a friend and be around when he picks back up. Guys cannot quit girls for long.
2006-09-11 10:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just jump right in and be yourself. You say you are usually an outgoing person, so be that. If he says something about laying off girls, tell him that's cool and you are just a friendly type person.
2006-09-11 10:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cardea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends idea sounds good to me.It's worth a try,but keep a bit of mystery about you.Good luck
2006-09-11 10:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! Talking to him shouldn't threaten him. But if he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, maybe you should just try to be friends with him for now.
2006-09-11 10:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
no idear
2006-09-11 10:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋