Why is it?

Question

My boyfriend and me have been trying to get pregnant for two months. I’m 23 and he is going to be 26. It’s so hard he is a very healthy person and so am I. I took two test and they came back negative. Granted I have not even missed my period, tomorrow I will know the 12th is when I’m supposed to start. I have been having all the symptoms Headaches, cramps, dizziness, wanting to throw up (But haven’t), Always tired, Backaches (not very bad) I can go on.

Why is it that women that can’t even take care of their kids can get pregnant? Yet I’m trying ( I know only two months) and not getting anywhere? It’s hard! :)

Answer 1

I feel you on that one! Read my questions... I am going through the exact same thing. Good luck ;)

Answer 2

well the stomach flu has been going around and those can be some of your simptoms.

But if you are not pregnant try this. studies show that having sex constantly with the same partner there is a less likely chance of pregnancy because there is not enough time to have a healthy sperm count. Me and mine were going at it at least 3 times a day. then we slowed down and bam yep i was pregnant.

so wait a week and a half let his balls fill up till they are going to exploid then give it a go and make sure you are on top that way when he goes it shoots up into you not down where is can squish out.

Answer 3

my son is 181/2 i lost 2 babies the last was a ectopic pregnancy in stead of growing in womb it grows in tube i nearly died.
i have been trying for a long time however have now resigned to the fact it will never happen.
my partner and i are going to adopt.

my point is this don't just make love have sex just for wanting a child as then it becomes a chore enjoy each others company and be close for each other than just trying to have a baby.
don't forget what brought you together and wanting this baby was love don't lose sight of that. many couples lose that sight.
enjoy the closeness first not just for wanting a baby.
good luck.

Answer 4

Two months is nothing. Even for a normal, healthy, fertile couple it can take a year to conceive. You only have about a 25% chance of getting pregnant in any given cycle. You'll undoubtedly get there. Just practice a little patience... I hear you'll need it when you become a parent!

Answer 5

Why are you trying to do this a) so young and b) unmarried? Are you really sure this is something you're ready to do in the circumstances you are in?

If you're really sure, then good luck to you. It's hard when you see people out there who don't appreciate what they have and you know you could be the best mother in the world. Could be worse, you could be 32 (like me) and watching the time ticking away. You have lots of time ahead of you for this.

Answer 6

Try to be patient. I know it's hard, but there are women out there who have tried for YEARS with no success. I know it gets old reading the news stories about people who don't want their children, abandon babies on doorsteps, etc. and wonder "Why them and not me?!"

Imagine how it must feel to those who have been trying for YEARS, going to fertility doctors, etc. spending thousands on medication and procedures...

I wish everyone who is (mature and stable and) TTC lots of babydust!

Answer 7

I'm right there with you!! I have a family friends son's girlfriend that has 4 children and 2 years younger than me... and she got pregnant a month after have one! yet my husband and i are trying for another and its been 17months for us and still nothing..hope that it is this month

Answer 8

Get married first, build a very strong marriage, then have kids.

Answer 9

some people are luckier than others.