Ok so my boyfriend of a year n a half broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. I am really lonely an want someone to love me like he did but im not ready to have another relationship. what do i do? Do i want back out with him?
2006-09-11 09:47:47 · 21 answers · asked by roxysmilegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why the hell is it stupid? your stupid. No ridiculous kids answers
2006-09-11 09:53:02 · update #1
- start drinking
2006-09-11 09:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem like the type that can't be alone. Take a deep breath and move on. Hang out with friends and do fun things. You want love but not a relationship? That makes no sense; you want the rewards and benefits of a love and relationship but without the ties. Impossible and a little self absorbed.
Everyone is lonely after a break up. Be mature and become a whole person before getting into another relationship. You can't find love if you can't commit. You still have some growing up to do.
2006-09-11 09:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not stoop that low. It was up to him to decide he did not want the relationship with you so just leave it alone and move on. He will later realize what he had was good. Show him you do not need him and can do better. If you let things flow then someone will come your way and even love you more than he did. (You can not go out looking, let it come to you) As far as lonely goes, go out with your friends and spend time with your family believe me it will take your mind off of him. Never refuse any opportunity on having fun, it is worth it in the end. You never want to sit at home think shoulda, woulda, coulda because he is not, trust me.
2006-09-11 09:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by unebellefille10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both still have feelings for each other and you can work at it yes,but don't do it just because you're lonely...
Try and have some ''you time'' to work things out..go out with mates,keep busy and have some fun !
You may find you don't need a boyf at this time and be happy being independant for a while... good luck and keep smilin' ,it will get easier x
2006-09-11 09:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give yourself time to get back out on the dating scene as it can take a while for a broken heart to mend. Use the spare time you have by seeing your friends and family.
Talk to them, cry on their shoulders, make jokes and laugh, it is possible for your broken heart to heal but don't let him back because you deserve a lot better
2006-09-11 09:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't go back out with him just because your lonely. You deserve more. If he broke up with you because he was not 100% happy with you then go find someone who is with you and you are them. I believe there is that person somewhere.
2006-09-11 09:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it for now. time is a healer as they say. try and enjoy single life for a bit, jumping into another relationship or going back out with your ex is only going to make things more painfull and messy
2006-09-11 09:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by alex p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on. no u are not really for another relationship yet. keep busy. u will find someone who is right for u. and u don't even have to go looking. they will find u. be happy and love your self. life is to short. good luck.
2006-09-11 09:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he want to be with you after just breaking up with you? That's a detail you left out.
2006-09-11 09:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u love him. but it sounds like u need to move on.
some else will love u and even better trust me!!!!
i thought the same about my ex untill i met my current girlfriend who i wouldnt change for the world!!!!!
goodluck hope u find happyness soon.
xxxxx
2006-09-11 09:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont want back with him get a puppy puppys will love you forever no matter what and are always happy to see you. doggies are better than boys cause they dont so much break your heart, except maybe when they pass on.
2006-09-11 09:50:45 · answer #11 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋