I am a reasonable 23 year old, why do i keep getting messed with by men?
My freinds and ex's say that i'm ok, that i'm fun loving and easy going, so why do i keep getting men treating me like pants? Will i ever find someone who loves me?
2006-09-11 09:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by lexi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry. its a part of life. did you know by getting dumped or treated bad by your current boy friends, you are increasing your chances of succeeding in the future, because at an early age you are learning what your strengths are and what your weaknesses are for example if a guy cheats on you and it has been going on for a long time it means that your weakness is your trust. now I'm not saying to not trust ne one at all in your life. all im saying is trust but be conscious about your surroundings, use logic and let the experience guide you. dont carry all your break ups and pain on your shoulders because it will whear you down. make note of your mistake and learn from it. have you ever tried going out with someone that you would not usually go out with. it could also be you choice in men.all im saying is to try new thing and wait love will alway find a way to your heart. oh yea by other people saying your a nice loving person fun ect wont make you feel ne better youve gotta believe it for it to get possitive resaults. remember the more possitive your are the more possitive attention you will be gaining, because if you feel down and worn out people can sence that and will attract bad attention. a confident girl will creat a shield from most bad attention. dont worry you will be alright. just remember life always hold good thing and bad thing and you may experience good thing at one time then bad things the next but the trik is to grap the good thing and learn from the bad things and move on. best wishes jyoti ;)
2006-09-11 10:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by jyoti mehta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find love. There are guys out there that just know that you can be used because you are a nice, decent person. I was treated the same in most of my relationships, but now I have been married to a wonderful guy for eighteen years. He treats me like gold and doesn't take advantage of my nature because he respects me as a person. Most people these days are very superficial and only think about themselves and what they can get. It is not your fault that you have been "casting pearls before swines".
2006-09-11 10:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably too easy going. you need to remember the motto treat em mean and keep em keen. first be indifferent to em, then take offence at everything they say then be really nice to em. the poor guys cant cope with this and it addles their little brains but keeps them intrigued cos they never know whats comming next. and if it doesn't work out at least you had a bit of fun.
2006-09-11 09:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 23 for crying out loud! Live a little before contimplating settling down. Wait until you're 30.
2006-09-11 09:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaaaaa
2006-09-11 09:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by SCHMUCKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are totally normal and most women go through this kind of stuff. are you attracted to a type? why? look for similarities and you'll suss them out quick each time. you are learning something about you that needs resolution. look into the laws of attraction at www.eft-talk.com
2006-09-11 09:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by raising your standards - that means, don't sleep with anyone! Only date men you would marry and only date them after you know them well. If you follow these simple rules, men will begin to respect you and you will respect yourself! God bless!
2006-09-11 09:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun attracts Fun....let them know you are serious , they will take you serious ......Yeah you will find someone who loves you ..but if you just having fun , how will he know you take love serious and him too.....
Scrap the fun tag and look for other qualities ...opposites sometimes do attract
2006-09-11 09:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by kydexa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat u like pants???
wat kind of expression iz dat???
no u will neva find some1 2 love u
2006-09-11 09:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋