O.K. so I like this girl.We like eachother as friends,but i'm afraid if I ask her out then it would freak out our friendship.What should I do?
2006-09-11 09:45:29 · 11 answers · asked by Robin/Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go for it ask her out and if she does freak out than just pretend you where joking around...
2006-09-11 09:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by La diva R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, if you could to fast with this you can get her upset and then you will not be friends. Why dont you ask her out on a date rather than just hanging out. This way you can see what she says. In that manner, be prepare to pay for everything on the first date. You can also talk to her about it but do not go to fast and do not jump on her with it. Just give her ideas and give her time and see where it goes from there.
2006-09-11 16:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let this play itself out. Don't rush anything. Invite her out (just the two of you) for some fun and maybe a couple of drinks. Don't go around big crowds (especially people that you know) as this might take the attention off of each other. If you have chemistry, then this will be the time for it to play out. If not, then you can still be friends.
2006-09-11 16:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she is bi? If so I would tell her that you would never want to jeopardize your friendship but you are really attracted to her and if she were open you would like to have a relationship with her. Or you can see if maybe making little hints like saying "you are so beautiful I don't mean to sound crazy but I would definitely be open to having more than a friendship".
2006-09-11 16:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know that without asking her. If she says its not for her leave things as they are. You never know, she may feel the same way. You HAVE to talk to her about this.
2006-09-11 16:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go the movies or dinner. Try to keep it as friends and when you get her alone tell her how you feel.
2006-09-11 16:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aske her! If you don't you will never know what she thinks. The "no" you already have. Try to see if there is a "yes" hidden in there
2006-09-11 16:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her just ask her out for coffee or something casual and then you know, see what happends if anything but if nothing does thats good enough where it wont mess up your friendship. goodluck.
2006-09-11 16:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her anyways
you hang out already and why not make it more serious
have fun with her and don't act any different on a date as you would hanging out
2006-09-11 16:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Then if she says no, say, "Just kidding! HA!" and kick her in the shin.
2006-09-11 16:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by ekinevel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋