Use 2 have sex daily,now its like 2x a week.What up?
2006-09-11 09:40:00 · 12 answers · asked by Mel ly Mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think about it while your dating no matter how long you dated you were trying to impress the other. Trying to get that catch. Once you get the catch you wanted- couples start to think that they don't need to work to keep them. Sex everyday before was to keep you happy, excited, and interested. There is no need to keep the fish on the hook once he bits the line and is stuck, all you need to do is hook him real him in and throw him to the side. I don't believe in following this frame of mind because I believe that is why the divorce rate is so high now days! Talk to her and ask if there is something wrong. She may not even realize it's an issue. Woman are emotionally tied to sex so she may be upset, concerned or stressed about something and isn't in the mood!! You can however do things to help her forget those things and get her in the mood. Hope this is helpful!
2006-09-11 09:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. You must have worn it out. The reason why things change is because now you have more responsibilities. You have a household to maintain at all times and more bills to worry about. Now you are thinking about the responsibility of children and whether the love will last til death. And also its the having sex before marriage you have become to familiar with each other and it's nothing new to you. I hope that answers your question.
2006-09-11 16:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women don't want it everyday (...or more=) but some maybe need to feel the love more to be more interested. I'm no expert but talk to her. Find out discretely what turns her on and help her to get back the love. Still... sex was made for marriage. Always better to save what you have till the wedding night! Still... good luck.
2006-09-11 18:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you started taking her for granted??? Kiss her more, hug her, show her that you love her, don't hide how much you want her, give her pleasure, satisfy her! Initiate the sex, and you'll see that she'll join you! Even two times per day, or more....all depends on you! Find what makes her happy in bed, and she'll make you happy to. A satisfied woman always finds a way to pay back....
2006-09-11 16:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew! It's the opposite here though! My husband and I only have sex once a week and I want it more! But I am 31 and I am still in my prime, he's 33 and I guess he's lost his! Who knows!
2006-09-11 16:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any other changes? Maybe household chores to be done, children to take care up, sb. gained a significant amount of weight and lost his/her attractiveness? You should talk to her and ask her directly!
2006-09-11 16:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys change their sex habits too...they just want to get laid and have forgotten all about foreplay and making a woman feel sexy. If you rush things and go straight for her crotch, she won't want to do it, it's NOT enjoyable that way.
2006-09-11 16:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are so use to you farting and scratching your butt...you didn't do that stuff before!!!
also, speaking as a married woman...stop farting on us and scratching your butt while I am having a very important conversation and stop making those brown marks on your underwear..didn't anyone teach you how to wipe your bum properly? Geeeezz...no wonder you men ask these silly questions!!!
2006-09-11 16:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spaceing it out so it doesn't get boreing to fast..
or could be you used to get her in the mood more before you got married.
2006-09-11 16:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang I couldnt tell u. With me and my husband its da opposite. Our sex life got better. More!!
2006-09-11 16:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋