She is being way to aggresive but I am not sure that he is interested in her and she Is embarrising herself.How do i tell her without sounding to prideful.OK, here is the deal she Is flirting with my ex it doesnt bother lk it did the last time,but last time i tried To tell her , it sounded lk i just wanted her to get away from him bcuz i still lked Him and, this time it isnt the same Thing i am looking out 4 Her............so how do I tell her.?
2006-09-11 09:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and dont say she is a bad friend bcuz u cant help if u lk some1...
2006-09-11 09:39:21 · update #1
just explain to her how the situation looks through your eyes. its best to just come out and say it as soon as possible before the problem persists and she continues to embarrass herself. she may be mad at you, but if she is a true friend she'll look at your point of view. soften it up also, tell her how much you care about her and you just don't want to get back w/ him or whatever.
2006-09-11 09:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by sx_rx_rocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell her and keep your friendship. No one can tell people who to like and not like, and besides, the more you try to keep her away from him the more she will go after him, which is what she has been doing, right? You may also convince her that you still have an interest in him, and that you are being dishonest with her. You have been honest with her and that is all you can do. Let them make their own choices.
2006-09-11 16:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one why is she trying to get it on with your ex?? Thats like the un written rule of freindship. It just doesn happen.. Let her make her own mistakes.. you'v tried to warn her off before and she gone back so it doesn sound like she goin to listen. Just be there for her when it all goes bad
2006-09-11 16:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by rochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her straight up like it is! And why is she trying to get with your ex? ain't you supposed to be her girl? maybe you can't help who u like, but you don't have to act on it. i think you should be more worried about whether or not you got a real homegirl in her. sounds shady to me!
2006-09-11 17:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Breeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell her if it makes HIM uncomfortable. And why is she your friend anyway? A true friend would not push up on her homegirls ex. That's an unwritten rule!
2006-09-11 16:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then be strong stick it up and tell straight in her face. dont let yourself down tell like you mean it and if she gets mad just tell her Im telling the truth and im not to hurt your feelings.
2006-09-11 16:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be on 'est with her if she is a friend she will accept it and you work things out !
2006-09-11 16:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by I'm crazy 4 God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you tell her that?
Every person has the right to be as THEY ARE, why should she change because you think that´s the right thing to do??
Let her find if her behaviour is correct or not by herself.
2006-09-11 16:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
worry about yourself. you are not her keeper and it isnt your place to tell anyone to change thier behavior.
2006-09-11 16:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋