My dad feeling my body?

Question

I am a 12 year old girl. Lately my boobs have started becoming visible. My dad asked me to take off my top so he could check my breast size so we could get me a bra and to make sure their was nothing wrong with them. I let him. He felt them, rubbed them, etc. Then he asked me to pull off my other clothes so he could make sure that their was nothing wrong with my body since my boobs were growing. I let him. He's been doing that for the last 8 months. I don't think it's right but I don't know what to do. I don't have a mom. I don't want to tell a person that will get my dad in trouble because I don't have anyone else and I don't want foster care. Lately I have started likeing him feeling me. What do I do?

Answer 1

Considering your PREVIOUS question was about your mom feelnig your body, and yet you state here you don't have a mother, I'd say 1) this is in extremely poor taste, and I'll have to report you, and 2) you're not even smart enough to ask questions in a way that covers your own trail of moronic questions. People like you make it difficult for people with GENUINE problems to ask their questions here and expect a serious answer. Grow up.

Answer 2

WOW-you have got a serious problem in your hands and it almost feels like you are becoming the problem. Don't ever let a person, male or female feel you up like that. If it feels wrong believe me it is not right!!! You need to say something to your dad about the way you feel when he feels on you. As a growing teenager he has no business searching for what he knows damn well is not there. Tell the authorities if it escalates or simply continues. You will regret it more if you continue to let this go on. I understand your concern but you will be doing the right thing. I pray for you.

Answer 3

Please go and get help. You and your dad both need it. You should talk to an adult you can trust. You said you don't have a mom, but do you have somebody in your life like a mom? You and your doctor can tell you if everything is heathly. How is your dad to know? If you are 12, then yes- go and get a bra but ask a female to take you because your dad is looking for the wrong reasons. Your dad shouldn't be doing anything like this and something should definetly be done about it. Please go and get help.

Answer 4

Tell him to stop. Tell him that you will examine yourself monthly for anything strange. Try using the internet to learn about certain things pertaining to girl's puberty. Some good sites are puberty101.com. Tell him that you know what should be there and what shouldn't. If you like your dad touching you, then that's called incest and it's illegal in some deep southern states, but after you are 18 years old and your boyfriend (or girlfriend, whatever you choose) feels your breasts, then you will probably stop liking when your dad does it. Because this is your first time that anyone has ever touched you there, you are bound to enjoy it. I am gay, and I used to like it when my father would examine me, but no one else had touched me there before so of course I would like it.

Answer 5

I'm sorry honey, but it is Wrong, You're father is molesting you.

I understand you won't want your dad to be taken away from you, or be seperated from your dad.

But how long do you think it will be before he starts to force you to touch him on his private places. How long will it be before he tries to have sex with you.
Its wrong that he is using you and exploiting your innocence. You're too young to be used for sex by your father.

The right thing to do is go to a teacher, your pastor or even call 911 and ask the operator that you have a non-emergency, but you need to talk to someone. I'm sure they will be able to connect you to the right department who can help you.

Its just wrong that your dad is doing this to you.

I'm really sorry sweetie.

sigh

Answer 6

Get to a teacher, family member, or someone who can be trusted. If you don't your father will take it further, sexual abuse usually starts with someone close to you. You haven't done anything wrong, you've followed your fathers rules but now it's time you step up and become strong. You mentioned you didn't have a Mom, I can understand your fear. So get to your Aunt, Grandma, just get going and don't let him touch you like that again. Honey, your innocence is something you'll never get back.

Answer 7

Well hone that is sexual assault and is punishable by the law. he could go to jail.

Its not right that he is touching you. It is not right that you are liking it.

Eventually you are going to hate him for doing what he is doing. and Eventually you are going to hate yourself for letting him-not telling anyone about it.

I say report him. tell any other adult. and ask him to stop. you don't feel comfortable. if you need to get your body checked out then tell him to make you a doctors apt.

Be smart

Answer 8

Well, if you don't really want to involve anyone else (and I think you should now!) ... I would suggest that you tell him, the next time he wants to examine you that you don't feel comfortable with that and for him to stop. If he contunues to ask to check you than I think you need to tell someone else. I understand that you don't want to be in foster care, but imagine the life you will have if you don't stop him. Sweetie, it will only get worse. Please tell him to stop and tell someone.

Answer 9

OH MY GOD. this is not a game and shouldnt be taken lightly.
You are worth more than a sex toy. There are people out there who care about you and you should contact them. Try a church?
Honey I feel sorry for your situation. I wish there was more I could do. Please report this. If he is doing this with you who else is he doing? Please get help. You can contact me if you need to.
God Bless You, I pray for you to find the strength to overcome this.

Answer 10

This question is FAKE. I feel sorry for people like you who use this site for sick perversions. I hate to picture you getting off on what people might respond or on what people might feel towards you. Stop asking these idiotic fake questions, some people like to take matters like these a bit more seriously.