my fiance' and i have been together for six years and have a 16 month old son. i recently found out that he called a chat dating line twice which wasn't the first time some thing like this happened about two years ago i found him iming girls on the internet. he told me that he didn't talk to any one he just listened to there messages. i asked him why he did it and he said he didn't know and he felt stupied for calling should i belive him or should i say good bye
2006-09-11 09:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by just4deeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you have a kid together you really have to try everything to stay together, I think. I would also say that cybering is really not as big a deal as people make it out to be.
If he is spending time doing this that he should be spending with you or your child, then i would say there is cause for concern - otherwise, I would think it is just a fun little libido hobby that keeps him "in the mood" and playful with you.
If you feel that you are at risk of losing him to one of these women, make him promise never to speak to the same woman twice, then he has no chance of really getting to know anyone and developing an emotional connection. If you are not offended by racy talk, maybe you can get him to share the emails in bed with you and you can both enjoy them.
Peace!
2006-09-11 10:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one to know that answer to this question. Do you trust him?? I mean how much doubt is already in your mind as your typed your question and do you have reason to doubt him.
If he's board then maybe he should find something better to do with his spare time than being on the computer. Children are wonderful parts to our lives and being active in their lives is so very important especially at such a young age!!
2006-09-11 09:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no commitment with you. You put yourself on the "Clearance" rack already. Time to say goodbye, unless you want to play pretend for the sake of the child.
2006-09-11 09:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes a voyeur. Time to move on
2006-09-11 09:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly say goodbye! He did it before and is doing it again, he'll probably have another go at it. Why stick around for that?
2006-09-11 09:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide what you should do with your relationship. If it were me I would definitely stop calling him my fiance.
2006-09-11 09:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, man. I mean, it makes sense to call them when you're single - but not when you're in a relationship. Are you having sex?
2006-09-11 09:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by T S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 YEARS!! and still not married!! It's time to move on...
2006-09-11 09:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Boricua Chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start sucking his cock more....keep him satisfied and he'll never want another
2006-09-11 09:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by saxons_uk 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋