i am not seeing one myself..so don't be writing back telling me i am a whore.. i need some honest answers for a friend
2006-09-11 09:36:23 · 24 answers · asked by dana s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
women see a married man to get some of their needs met, and vice versa.
the problem is generally that the woman eventually wants more, and the man usually wants to stay with his wife.
It's theoretically possible for the man to leave his wife, the wife to actually be happy about it, and the woman to live happily ever after with the previously married man . . . not probable tho.
2006-09-11 09:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are absolutely NO acceptable circumstances for seeing a married man!!
The MARRIED part should pretty much tell you all you need to know. He is married for a reason why would anyone want to cause more problems in someone else's relationship than are already there?
Tell your frien to leave wellaalone, if he's not honest and faithful to his wife why would she be any different??
Something for her to think seriously about before she does anything.
2006-09-11 16:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by yumyum2chestnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, and No. If someone cannot finish one relationship before starting another then who the H--- do they really think they are. This is possibly the lamest thing that goes on in this world today. Are women really so desperate for a man that they will take up with a married one. Men just laugh and the poor woman gets a reputation. If he is married - stay away. You only degrade yourself and never the man. I hope you can help your friend before she goes too far and the wife gets told. Hope this helps someone see the light. Thanks
2006-09-11 16:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there isn't. Right now it might seem like fun but it always turns out to be bad news. Tell your friend to put herself in the wife's shoes, whether she is a good person or not, and see how she would like her man doing that behind her back. It's just not fair under any circumstances.
2006-09-11 16:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by flmomfl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
karma! I believe what ever you do to someone ... it will come back on u! Good or bad! I guess my advice would to be to wait... until the married peoples divorce will be final the next day or something. If they plan on even getting a divorce! If they don't you should tell your friend that she needs to talk to the married person she is planning on being with! Ask him what his intentions are and she should not get involved until he isn't married anymore!
Good luck!
2006-09-11 16:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None that I can think of. One should always end one relationship before trying to make a new one work!!
My best for your friend ... if she has or is entering into a relationship based on a lie from the start its pretty tough to get past that in the future.
2006-09-11 16:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to date only married men to be honest with you but now i've 'grown-up' and gotten married myself. I feel badly for all the married men I dated(well, i feel for thier wives i should say) Long story short, there are plenty of single men out there and with married men, someone is always going to get hurt. tell your friend to keep looking for a single guy, whose totally available for her. Good Luck!!
2006-09-11 16:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there aren't any ..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-11 16:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if his wife has been in a coma for 15 years and the feeding tube etc is being removed.....
Anything less makes you a party to his deception of his wife. If he is ready for a change...tell him to make the move then you'll date him... no sooner though!
2006-09-11 16:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: if either one of you were married would there be any acceptable circumstance where it would be ok for your husband to have a mistress ?
2006-09-11 16:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋