2006-09-11 09:33:14 · 27 answers · asked by Island Girl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok Guys...I didn't mean it that way....He asked if he could go out on his own...he always does...I am not controling...him in any way. we have a daughter....10 months so I said...yes just be careful....
2006-09-11 10:16:48 · update #1
I'm not making a big deal out of it. Just wanted to know what guys think...
2006-09-11 10:18:45 · update #2
There is nothing too worry about. Every straight man loves watching women, but, it doesn't mean he doesn't want you. My wife jokes that the day that I stop looking is the day that they will bury me, but, she is the only one that I want to touch. Consider going along with him to a club sometime, my wife and I go together quite often and it normally leads to great times and ideas when we get home.
2006-09-11 12:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by anchorworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Has he ever been to a strip club before. Was it couriosity on his part? Was he with friends and one of them made the decision to go and he just followed along since he was out with them. You really haven't given enough information to be able to give an answer where were just not second guessing why he went.
2006-09-11 09:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make such a big deal about it? Hey, as long as he brings that "excitement" home to YOU, what's the harm? I say let him go or better yet, go WITH him! It could very well lead to some real fun together later! And remember, turnabout is fair game! Make him go with YOU to a GIRL's club (Chippendale's or the like). I say whatever sparks things up and keeps things exciting is a GOOD thing!
2006-09-11 09:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! your mistake was to marry him. A guy is a guy. And if your gonna commit to something you are supposed to know him inside and out. You can either fix his problem or cope with it. Out of expirience, you can teach an old dogs new tricks. If he is easily influenced by his buddies or male phermones ... well... you should have known better. Yeah he made a mistake... but you KNEW he was bound to, and you trusted. You did the right thing there, but you still got choices...
2006-09-11 09:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Wpns T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aslong as he doesn't do it all the time I wouldn't worry about it. My husband hasn't went to one since we got married, but before we were married we went there once together which was hot! I think I'd prefer to go with him, but maybe once in a blue moon with the guys, I could handle that!
2006-09-11 09:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? They don't let you touch them at a strip club, and he won't get laid...it's against the rules. The biggest problem is the hardon he'll have when he gets home.
2006-09-11 09:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? Don't be so insecure and controlling. You "let" him? Give me a break. You should do the same some time. He should let you go. You should go with him. If he protests, then he is hiding something, and that is wrong.
2006-09-11 09:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that knows the answer to that:
Do you trust him?
I would trust my husband at a strip club!
2006-09-11 09:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREA 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he could be more wise by spending that time and money on making his family happy. Just be honest with him. Don't try to do the same as he does hoping he will change--he won't!
2006-09-12 06:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Quest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you were wrong, if he is looking he will look anywhere he goes and strippers are not the type he would probably cheat with. Hey email me if you want to talk about this and I have some insight about chacha.com thumpertime2000@yahoo.com
2006-09-11 09:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋