2006-09-11 09:16:26 · 23 answers · asked by ilovehersomuch53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ive been with my gf for 1yr 3months dosent sound that long but im about to ask her to marry me thats how much i love her i would do anything for her and i kno what i did was wrong and i kno that i would never ever do it again please help me
2006-09-11 09:21:07 · update #1
Get lost and let her go.
You'd hurt her feelings, you big pooooo
2006-09-11 09:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chanel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but being a victim of having been cheated on. I can't understand the part where they say I love you so much. I would never ever cheat and had never ever, so what is the deal that we are not suppose to be hurt and go on like nothing happened and just take that person back. And of course believe it will never happen again. How can one love some one so much and not want to loose them and do such a dumb thing that will make them leave.........How do you get her back, crawl on your belly, kiss her feet, beg, do what ever it takes that she would even think of looking at you again.
2006-09-11 16:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up. Big time. You may never get her back. Trust is a small and fragile thing, and you slammed it onto a terra cotta tile floor and then danced in the shards. You can apologize and beg and plead, but she will always have that little doubt in the back of her mind. Always. As in forever. No matter what you do.
Best bet is to cut your losses, find a new person to love, and don't eff it up so badly next time.
2006-09-11 16:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by kimberhands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't be as mean as the others... I have been cheated on before and it's not a good feeling and I also cheated and that person stayed for a while but later left and yes it hurts bad but they hurt worse. we're still friends and just that fact that he is willing to be my friend says alot ... takekit one day at at time and don't rush anything. just let her know that you are truly sorry for what you did...make sure she knows it everyday.
2006-09-11 16:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has any sense, she probably will NOT come back to you. Why should she give you a second chance when you betrayed her and hurt her so deeply? To appease you---what is in it for her?
I am talking from personal experience here,....when a woman goes back to a man who has cheated on her, we don't forget and things are never the same.
2006-09-11 16:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be time to learn about her qualities and attributes through what has happened. Since you are not seeing each other, it gives the chance for both of you to reveal the thoughts and feelings if you give it time without feeling awkward or embarrassed.
2006-09-11 16:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by sunnyday11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude u ****** up u need to do something big just so she forgives u and asking her to marry u after u cheated on her is not the smartest thing to do
2006-09-11 16:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and treat her even better than you did the girl you cheated on her with. Get her roses, keep asking her out. Prove yourself. No matter how much trouble you have to go through, you deserve to have to try.
2006-09-11 16:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love her "so much." If you did, you would have considered how much you cheating would have hurt her, and you wouldn't have done it. Maybe you *need* her, or want her, but it's not love. Love doesn't do things that hurt the people you love. Think about it.
2006-09-11 16:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really bad that you cheated on her but i think that you should get someflowers and some chocolates and a teddy bare and go find her and explain and tell her that you love her.... or write her a letter telling her everything you have to say
2006-09-11 16:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk! Once a cheater always a cheater! If you love her soooooo much then you wouldn't have done it in the first place!
2006-09-11 16:20:01 · answer #11 · answered by sassykiss_USA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋