why does it seem that .....?

Question

for my hubby that the more painful the sex is for me, the better job he's done. its great for me.at first, but is that a guys ego thing?

Answer 1

guys like going in hard and fast. my boyfriend says when he rams it in the head of the penis rubs against a "wall" type thing and it feels really good for him. it can be an ego thing depending on who the guy is. but it feels good for men to go harder and deeper. i cant complain cause i like it.

Answer 2

Honey, its definately a testosterone thing.....but I would be cautious if he is hurting you, that could be a whole different problem......if you tell him that it is hurting you and he doesn't stop or get easier on you, I would start to worry.....men should not cause you pain in any way, shape, or form......