Our relationship is really special. We have ups and downs but mostly happy moments. When things get rough with our relationship, I was the one that always get hurt so badly. Maybe because I'm the one that really fell in love and did not leave any for myself. We talk about marriage once in a while and having kids but it seems like I'm running out of time. A lot of our friends are wondering why we are not married yet. My Bf always kid on them that I haven't proposed to him yet. What does he really mean by that? Do you think he is not ready? He always compliment me that I'm kind, loving beautiful etc.... but my ultimate wish that he propose to me has not happened yet. I learned so much about his personality (good and bad) but I have been trying to accept every change in him. I know he loves me but there is something missing. Please help!
2006-09-11 09:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kittytweetie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I talked to you about expectations-it seems that he has some high expectations from you. He seems to expect that you will propose to him. What do you want to do? You need to ask this question and so much more to yourself. What will make you happy? Is this the man that you want to spend eternity with? Very important questions that must be discussed with him after you are able to think these questions through. It is hard to know the exact answer and yet there is no right or wrong answer on if he or you ask. It is by preference. But from what I see-it seems that the two of you want two different things. Are you willing or wanting to ask him to marry you? Are you traditional like I was with having my husband propose to me? Best of luck and let me know if you need any other help.
2006-09-11 09:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 years is a long time to be with someone and they have not asked you to marry them. You must be given him everything with out the benefits of marriage. If you really want to get marry and after all this time he doesn't, yes move on. Yeah, there is something missing a true commitment.
2006-09-11 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to him about it, or even propose to him. If he really loves you he would accept, and if not you will be able to move on and find someone better for you.
2006-09-11 09:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by Random-ask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you propose to him. If he says no, then yes, it is time to move on.
2006-09-11 09:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well PROPOSE to Him...and well if he does not wish the same maybe you could move on...
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2006-09-11 09:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why buy a cow when you get the milk free.
2006-09-11 09:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋