im kind of a loner! but when i do meet knew people its this nagging feeling that they want something from me and it really bothers me! in the last 15 years Ive only met one person i dont feel that way about but i live to far away to visit with him a lot. does anybody else have this problem?
2006-09-11 09:04:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hear ya, I feel the same way! Over the years, many of my friendships have ended due to my realization that these "friends" weren't really true blue. I can't be around people who give off a negative energy.
It seems like as you get older, the opportunity to make friends with others gets less and less likely. I want to make new friends, but it's hard. No one seems to extend themselves. I mean, at work there's a gal I would hang out with but she never asks me out for drinks or tries to create a true friendship - same with the girl who does my hair and we're exactly the same age. It is so weird!
2006-09-11 09:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i find that i am a loner as well because here is the thing i am 24 i work i go to school and i barely have time and when i do i just want to relax most people my age just want to drink or have sex with hot women or men depending on the orgin male or female and to me im just a tad bit more grown then people my age i dont know and when i do get a friend there always seems to be drama and then there are those nights when there isnt nothing to do then i feel lonely
as far as relationships like dating omg i have bad luck because i cant stand imaturity
2006-09-11 16:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been a loner, and I'm pretty happy with being that way. It's alot less complicated. What I've had are mostly either co-workers or acquaintences.
2006-09-11 16:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and its gonna be ok.
you will find someone that you have the same connection with, just like your old friend. and just because you dont have alot of friends doesnt make a loser.actually having less friends is better. it keeps you out of trouble!!!!
2006-09-11 16:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it easier to look out for number one first and foremost, and having one or two great friends is better then having 10 or more friends.
2006-09-11 16:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOMCAT LEARN TO RELAX .TAKE EVERY OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE FRIENDS.IF YOU ARE FINDING IT TOUGH FIND A THERAPIST.
2006-09-11 16:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got issues
so do I
2006-09-11 16:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋