2006-09-11 09:00:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm, why don't you try and spice things up a bit. Visit a sex shop together and maybe try experimenting with some toys or erotic lotions etc.
My hubby and I always try and keep things interesting by adding new things or trying new things - it keeps it hot and is always fun and we both LOVE it!
Also try a variety of positions and always be open to trying new things - you never know if you like it if you don't try it..... Good luck!
2006-09-11 09:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are very few men who will object to their women trying something new. Take a trip to an adult store (by yourself if he does not want to go with you, but I find that VERY hard to imagine). Buy one or two items you think might be fun to try out. A change from the same old routine once in a while is a good way to relieve bedroom boredom. There are also TONS of books out there on different positions for sex. Buy a book and do a new position every week. You'll be too tired to be bored!
2006-09-11 16:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do not LOVE your husband in an all out way and if you are not on the same page as him perhaps you should file for divorce... you may be holding BOTH of you back. I mean picture that there is some woman out there waiting to be with him OR picture there is a man waiting to be with you.
Like the other people said there are other methods, get a paddle or something and just play light touch arousal with each other,,,
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HOPE IN VEGAN AWARENESS ALL AROUND
2006-09-11 16:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give something new a try. Introduce new toy's into the bedroom try some bondage on him you take control and make him wait for it. If all else fail's try a swing club and maybe get togeather with another couple. You do not have to swap partner's but having sex in the same bed with another couple can be a turn on.
2006-09-11 16:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to him a few ways you can spice it up, fantasies you have, etc. E.g. sex props like whipped cream, handcuffs, candle wax, sweet-flavored syrup, together with your imaginations, have tremendous potential to make things more interesting.
If he claims disinterest, THEN you have a problem, because it shows that he is attentive only to his own needs and couldn't care less about yours.
2006-09-11 16:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Serginho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some good books for him on LOVE MAKING. HE seems to be not that expert in this field.
It requires imagination, and passion, one cannot be bored from it...never
2006-09-11 16:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a date with him. Meet him someplace "different"; show up dressed a little "different"; talk to him a little "different"; flirt with him a little "different".
Do something ummmmmmm ...... DIFFERENT --- why are you waiting for him to take the lead.... honey take matters into your own hands. Whether they like to admit it or not, men like to be led around a little.
I'm sure he'll jump on the band wagon --- pretty quick.
2006-09-11 16:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new things. read books. there is 1001 ways to having sex
2006-09-11 16:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Coach Rovel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment, find something new that the two of you can enjoy together.
2006-09-11 16:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him hold out. Tell him it is your way or no way. He will eventually give in. If he cares, he will care about your climax also.
2006-09-11 16:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Darin S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋