My husband swares he is not cheating and even confessed he kissed another girl but I dont beleive him how can I find out if he is cheating. I dont want to just accuse him of it
2006-09-11 08:59:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He kissed another girl? Then he has cheated and chances are if he's kissed another girl he's probally done more than that. I always say trust that gut feeling, the one that you feel with all our heart. I am sure you know what I am talking about. Anytime I have felt that gut feeling, I was right! I always found out about it. I have done the sneaky thing, and it made me feel bad. I shouldn't have to check up on someone. If I can't trust what my partner is telling me then something is wrong with the relationship. For me kissing another girl would not fly! I'd be gone! You put up one thing, then it's another and another! Before you know it you are being walked all over! You don't want that do you? Follow your heart and do what is best for you! You deserve someone to be faithful to you!
2006-09-11 09:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One good way of finding out if he's screwing around is to wait for him to get home after work or from a "night out with the guy's", greet him in a very sexy manner and just go down him. Now if he's been screwing, then he probably smells like Soap, this is because he probably washed himself before coming home to you, and if he doesn't smell like soap then I'm pretty sure you'll smell the other woman all over him. Good luck. I got busted by a girlfriend this same way many years ago!
2006-09-11 16:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Check out his phone bill, it will ahev a list of the numbers he has called, the lngth of time on the phone...and the people he text messages!
- Try to walk in the room when he is on the computer, if he puts a screen down or gets off a page real quick, there is a sign.
- Get a hot friend of yours (preferably one he hasn't seen before) and ask her to try to pick uo on him at a place that you know he is at. Ask her to try to get him number, get info on his current status(see if he tells her he is married or dating or single) and try to set something up for another date and time. Even let her call him a few days later to meet. Right there is your proof. If he wants to meet up with her, that's as good as going all the way. he is supposed to be honest, faithful, and respectful to you!
2006-09-11 16:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has confessed to kissing another woman????
I wouldn't be on here posting questions, I'd be looking for a place to hide the body!
2006-09-11 16:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is really no other way unless you pay for a private detective or contact the show Cheaters.
2006-09-11 16:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into his cell phone history, make sure he leaves work at the same time everyday, and ask him questions about his day.
2006-09-11 16:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by eld13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to sneak around and check up on him. If you really want to know you will find a way.
2006-09-11 16:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ride on....is either u trust him or lf u don just leave. Have u ever heard of a saying"LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE".
2006-09-11 16:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalk him..watch what he is doing and if you don't know the password to his email look through the history of it so that you can try to find out what he is doing..follow him if you feel that he is going somewhere to meet someone..
2006-09-11 18:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by malanina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Cheaters. Exercise your right to be informed!
2006-09-11 16:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋