How do I use a strap-on? I mean most ppl say its common sense but its not really! And what is the best kind to get? I have already searched several sites and such so I don't need any sites to look at them. I've done enough of that. Another things.... for those of you that use them..... is it ok for both partners to use them? I mean if you don't really have a butch and a fem. I've been completely against strap-ons but I may be giving in.
2006-09-11 08:53:28 · 15 answers · asked by Leelee 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First I would have to ask if you REALLY wish to use a strap-on on yourself. You cannot commit to something you don't like if it is just to make your girlfriend happy. Otherwise, if you like to put them on...That is a totally different story. Think about what YOU really like and not what others want for you to like. Do not make the mistake of giving in, when your heart or mind is crying out the opposite.
Usually leather harnesses are more durable, and comfortable than the cheaper type of harnesses. If your girl likes a "realistic" type of dildo, then perhaps you should look towards those (keep in mind the lenth and width). I say this because I've shopped online and through stores most of the time =)
Best of Luck!
2006-09-11 11:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Clais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most strap ons come with a harness and the harnesses are usually built into underwear,just pick your size underwear and you should have no problem,the best kind to get is ones that are more jelly than latex,with the underwear,straps will break and expand and after a while and then wont fit right.its ok for both partners to use them,as long as there is a place to put it!lol adult stores have a wide variety of strap on underwear,i also suggest watching some girl on girl porn featuring strapons,it will give you lots of pointers,worked for me years ago!
2006-09-11 16:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both partners using it is fine, if both partners want to - a strap-on has a lot to do with listening to your partner and respect. As for what kind to get: for the strap, get an adjustable one to save yourself a lot of stress. Also - try to make sure the straps connect with buckles, snaps or anything but the annoying "weave it through the ring" system - it never stays where you want it and yet is impossible to get on and off. The "appendage" is up to you and your partner...get whatever you feel like - just make sure it will work with the strap you choose. As for use - it is really instinct. It's kind of like dancing (and yes, music will help) just go slow and LISTEN to your girl...she will tell you if you are doing it right.
2006-09-11 15:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strap ons are fun. There some that easily come off, that you can use a dildo. Use your imagination when using them..No worries about using them on both of you.. There's no butch or fem when it comes to sex. Just plain good fun. Go to a local sex store, they have some there. Hope this helps.
2006-09-11 16:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that you could look at some porn and learn from that; just be careful, because a lot of the time porn doesn't reflect reality very accurately.
2006-09-11 17:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a double ended dildo if you BOTH want to use one. Otherwise, you both should have your own, for cleanliness and hygiene purposes. As to the how.....well, that's totally up to you. Put it on, and......act like a man!!!!
2006-09-11 15:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of those that is double sided,so one end goes up inside you too.It is a lot of fun,and you can use it on men or women
2006-09-11 19:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok for you both to use it but it should be something you are both wanting not just giving in so you lover will be happy!!!!!!
2006-09-11 15:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you wonder about using a strap on? If a female was meant to have a penis, then men would have had the vaginas. Going against the prick. Unnatural.
2006-09-11 16:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by pleasantville982001 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Check out www.feeldoe.com
2006-09-11 16:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋